Abortion

Robbie 2021-12-09 08:01:33

My friend gave birth to a child at noon on the 6th. She was lying on the delivery bed and called me, panting but full of breath.
At this time last year, she brought two catties of shrimp and a bottle of Lao Ganma to make me a strong spicy shrimp meal. We walked in the community with plenty of food and drink. She sat on the swing and gave me endless talk. Talking about her pregnancy, that silly girl who is passionate about beautiful clothes and housework has become the most meticulous scientist. She is familiar with all the theories and recipes for giving birth to a boy. She collects other people's pregnancy test reports and the date of birth. She created her own watch four. Whether the embryo shape of the month B ultrasound is round or long is a theory that judges men and women and firmly believes; she quit all the so-called acidic foods such as ice cream, cakes, and chocolate, forcing her husband to eat meat all day, which comes from another of hers The theory that male bodies are more acidic and female bodies are more likely to give birth to boys.
I think this is all nonsense, and it sounds sleepy. Alas, the last gentle and gentle woman has also become a paranoid. She suddenly stopped. She said that she had knocked out a child. At that time, she happened to be ill and took a lot of cold medicine. After hesitating for a long time, she knocked it out. I remember in a daze that she was ill and rested at home for a long time. Said she thought it was a boy. I couldn’t see her face in the dark. She was calm when she talked about it. We laughed a few times, but I felt distressed. That’s why the person who kept saying that she would only raise a daughter was suddenly stubborn and paranoid. All the reasons for a son.
There are some people you know that he is a good person, but you will not like him anyway; this movie, I know it is a good film, but I can’t watch it until Gandy appears. At that time, after she had the operation, they The three came to the beach. The two men were already chatting warmly. She put on a dress and sat down slowly. She looked at them and smiled, then turned her head back, her face was full of sadness. One of her expressions completely moved me.
My former colleague is smart, beautiful, aggressive and capable, appreciated by the leader, loved by his boyfriend, and full of praise from the future in-laws. One day, he suddenly broke up, resigned, went home, quickly registered for marriage with another man, became pregnant and gave birth to children. Later, it became clear that she had an unexpected pregnancy, and her boyfriend discussed with her and killed it. She met a man in her hometown who was willing to have children. She cheated, became pregnant and immediately abandoned everything she had. She just wants a baby.
We sighed at the truth about the gossip, we all said she was stupid, and her cleverness was used to solve her own emotional problems simply and neatly, but how could she be so decisive.
The aunt with the longest family husband is in her forties. A few years ago, she risked expulsion from public office and gave birth to her second daughter. She was the only husband in her life. Her uncle let her eat garlic and she would never eat green onions. Once she came to my house, as usual the topic of aunts and aunts, hurrying to have a child, after the idiom, she didn’t know how to say to herself. Back then, her uncle insisted on having a son. The eldest daughter became pregnant when she was a teenager. She was very obedient and miscarried, and soon she was pregnant again. The ultrasound was still a daughter, and her uncle let it go. However, she showed unprecedented stubbornness, saying that she didn't do anything, and resolutely gave birth to the child.
I am full of respect for her ever since.
Look at the people around you, everyone is ordinary, colleagues, relatives, shop assistants, passers-by, you can only see the peace and perseverance on those faces, you can't see the hidden pain and confession in your heart.
The relationship between Homer and Gandy, solitary comfort, mutual attraction, long-term love, maybe there is a little provocation and revenge on the fiance, he created this child, he did not leave this Child, he abandoned it and killed it. She uses betrayal to revenge, and she can alleviate the guilt in her heart.
The world is vast, and everyone has his own way. Except that Gandy played by Theron impressed me, I didn't see the main idea of ​​the whole film clearly (from the childhood language class to form a habit), I just saw each other's lives. Homer’s story and his upcoming life, Dr. Lacy’s life has bottomed out, Gandy’s, Ruth’s and his daughter’s lives are intertwined with each other. Homer is a bystander, and it is others who are watching. An immersed person understands himself. Sometimes I feel that life is just a connection of one choice after another. Homer went out, saw the world, experienced the sweetness and pain of love, turned around and chose to return to the orphanage, not only a return, but also a new beginning . He got it and lost it. He is no longer a blank sheet of paper, he is painted with colors and marks, and for the rest of the years, he is steady and steady. Occasionally, I feel the traces on my body in the night when no one is around, and think about the past.

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The Cider House Rules quotes

  • Fuzzy: Is your father dead?

    Dr. Wilbur Larch: Cirrhosis. It's a disease of the liver.

    Fuzzy: What, a liver killed him?

    Dr. Wilbur Larch: No, alcohol killed him. He drank himself to death.

    Fuzzy: But did you know him?

    Dr. Wilbur Larch: Barely. But it hardly mattered that I knew him.

    Fuzzy: Did you know your mother better?

    Dr. Wilbur Larch: Mm-hmm. She's dead now too. She was a nanny.

    Fuzzy: What's a nanny do?

    Dr. Wilbur Larch: She looks after other people's children.

    Fuzzy: Did she grow up around here?

    Dr. Wilbur Larch: No. She was an immigrant.

    Fuzzy: What's an immigrant?

    Dr. Wilbur Larch: Someone not from Maine.

  • Homer Wells: I was wondering if you could give me a ride.

    Wally Worthington: Sure. I'd be glad to. A ride where?

    Homer Wells: Where you going?

    Wally Worthington: We're heading back to Cape Kenneth.

    Homer Wells: Cape Kenneth? That sounds fine.