Is it fate that has arranged us? Or do our choices determine our destiny?

Lorenz 2022-04-23 07:01:35

Storyline:
In fact, the storyline is very simple. David and Alice fall in love at first sight. However, their fate plan says that they cannot be together. Their future destiny has been arranged. David is the future president, and Alice is the best in the future. The ballet dancer, the premise is that the two of them can't be together...

The feeling of love at first sight is unforgettable for the two of them. In order to meet Alice again, David took the same bus for three consecutive years. The persistence of the two, and the chance encounter between the two...

Finally, the two rewrote their fate and finally got together.

At the end there is a classic line from Harry:
Most people live life on the path we set for them. Too afraid to explore any other. But once in a while, people like you come along, and knock down all the obstacles we put in your way. People who realize free will is a gift you'll never know how to use until you fight for it. I think that's the Chairman's real plan. And maybe one day, we won't write the plan. You will
. Most people are on the trajectory we have designed for them and don't have the guts to explore other paths. But every now and then someone like David comes along and clears up all the obstacles we've set up. Such a person will understand, free will It's a gift that you only know how to use if you earn it yourself. I think that's the real plan of the "Chairman". Maybe one day we won't have to do the planning anymore. You'll plan your own path.)

There is a detail in the movie, Harry said that the Destiny Planning Bureau will not care what drink you choose to drink, but will help you make decisions in major matters, for example, when will a cup of coffee spill over, if there is an error, it is because of fate. I took a nap...

I often wonder, is it fate that influences our choices? Or do our choices of free will determine our destiny?

Looking at all my current life experiences, it seems that there is a force that is arranging and affecting my destiny. For example, love. The appearance and disappearance of every love happens to be every turning point in my life. Every time a lover appears, as long as I lose myself and lose my mind, then fate will always arrange for him to go away from me...

The first lover, he appeared when I knew nothing about love, he was a A handsome, kind, mature person, but also a person who is depressed because he just broke up in love, I always listen to his stories, he always says something I don't understand, his sadness often makes me ache. I don't understand love. His appearance directly affected my study, from the time of acquaintance to his departure for three months. For him, I only remember that one evening the sunset was beautiful, we sat on the lawn and looked at the gorgeous sunset in the sky, he sang in my ear, and then said softly, I have experienced too much, I seem to The vicissitudes of life, such a simple you are suitable for a simple boy to love you and give you a beautiful love...

For his sudden departure, I cried to death at that time, thinking it was hurt, and I was unwilling to admit his existence. . Later, I realized that this was not love, but I still thank him very much, and it didn't hurt the innocent me at that time.

The second lover, just as the first one said in his blessing, he is a simple, steady, kind, and beautiful boy. He gave me all the imagination and beauty of my first love. He gave me a full sense of security. Gave me a whole, complete and beautiful love.
For me at that time, he was a lover, Lanyan, a brother, and a father. In the five years of knowing and loving him with him, there was no quarrel, and there was no overnight atmosphere in our agreement. He carefully loved and cherished me. He is a dependable and trustworthy person. With him, he is steadfast and at ease. He is the kind of person who sleeps in the same bed with him. I can sleep peacefully without worrying about what he thinks. A safe and reliable boy. The bits and pieces of being with him, I don't know how many diaries are filled, it can almost be written into a novel.
Until he graduated from college, he graduated first and left, and I fell into the most confused stage of my life. At that time, I didn't know how to be myself first, but reached out and grabbed love tightly. Because of the different place, for him, I gave up my further studies, gave up a stable job, and even gave up my family to fly away, just to protect my love.
However, in the end, things were wrong, I lost myself and lost love...

For this relationship, although I finally mentioned the breakup, it was a helpless forced choice. However, until the end, we also parted peacefully and blessed each other. Even so, I am very grateful to him for giving me complete love. We have walked through every stage of love hand in hand bit by bit, only the last marriage is missing.


The third lover, whose appearance was a glimpse, made my heart flutter. He is handsome, humorous, and sings very nice songs. There is a hint of distressing melancholy between his eyebrows. His external image, all his personality hobbies, and even his constellation are almost exactly the same as the perfect lover I imagined. He said, I am her in his imagination, we fell in love at first sight, and the love heated up rapidly.
For him, I had no resistance at all, and I fell deeply into it all at once. I thought it must be him in this life, and I wanted to give him all the best. Every day with him, my eyes, my heart, and my mind are all about him. Gradually, my EQ and IQ not only went offline at the same time, but also lost my due reason...
Until his sudden departure, I was sober and regretted. I hate my irrational self. I'm obviously not that kind of person, but I have to pretend to be someone he hates to die in love...
In just two months, he has become an eternal pain and unforgettable memory in my heart. From this relationship, I have been constantly reflecting on myself. At the same time as I asked people who came here, I studied a lot of books on psychology and gender relations. I finally understood that I made the most fatal mistake in love for this relationship. Being carried away by love, we skipped the stage of getting to know each other, only to find out that he didn't know me, and I didn't know him. If we can do it all over again, I hope we can walk together slower and slower, and taste every necessary stage of love together.

Destiny is always like this, somewhere, whenever I lose myself in love, it always pushes him away from me so hard that I can regain my senses...

by chance? Or a coincidence? The departure of every lover happens to be a turning point in my life. My mind will be reopened because of love, and my soul will be purified and sublimated because of love. Somewhere in the world, the sensitive I always seem to be able to feel the force behind me, pushing me forward invisibly.

Perhaps, love is the subject of my life!

If it is said that fate is planned in advance, it is better to say that everything you have experienced, whether it is good luck or bad encounters, is for you to experience experience and baptism, gain wisdom from it, and achieve a better yourself. If you can, I fully believe that you too can rewrite your destiny.

Grateful for the lover in my life for making me grow into a better me. I love you, bless you, and wish you peace, health, happiness, and well-being in this life.

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The Adjustment Bureau quotes

  • Harry Mitchell: [talks to David] You're going to look for her, aren't you? You won't find her. They'll make sure of it. Even if they weren't trying to stop you, there are nine million people in this city. You'll never find her. Forget about her. Move on with your life.

  • David Norris: What ever happened to Free Will?

    Thompson: We actually tried Free Will before. After taking you from hunting and gathering to the height of the Roman Empire we stepped back to see how you'd do on your own. You gave us the Dark Ages for five centuries... until finally we decided we should come back in. The Chairman thought maybe we just needed to do a better job of teaching you how to ride a bike before taking the training wheels off again. So we gave you the Renaissance, the Enlightenment, the Scientific Revolution. For six hundred years we taught you to control your impulses with reason, then in 1910 we stepped back. Within fifty years, you'd brought us World War I, the Depression, Fascism, the Holocaust and capped it off by bringing the entire planet to the brink of destruction in the Cuban Missile Crisis. At that point a decision was taken to step back in again before you did something that even we couldn't fix. You don't have free will, David. You have the appearance of free will.