I want to say what I think after watching this movie. The men in the movie actually still need a successful career. Only when a man conquers his career can he have self-esteem and be a real man. Only when men are at their best in their careers can men live like a man. But a man needs a woman's comfort when he fails. Jerry is also an ordinary man. When his career is going well, he can live like a real man and challenge everything with confidence. But when his career was at a low point, he also needed a woman's comfort. At this time, he broke up with his girlfriend and his assistant Dorothy came into his life. What Jerry actually needed was a comfort, but Dorothy was long before them. Already fell in love with Jerry on the flight. When Jerry, whose career has not yet improved, continued to suffer from the blow of his career, Jerry could not live like a man, and naturally he could not love like a man, and his marriage with Dorothy was also in a dilemma. In fact, Dorothy's marriage has always been Dorothy's wishful thinking, but Dorothy once had a marriage and a son, Ray. Dorothy actually knows life better. Dorothy likes Jerry, but Dorothy knows more about what kind of life he wants. Rather than saying that Dorothy married Jerry, it would be better to say that Dorothy married the life he wanted. When Dorothy proposed to separate from Jerry, it seemed more practical and rational. Perhaps this kind of gentle drizzle of love and this kind of gentle drizzle of pain are more like life. Too intense love and too gnashing of hatred cannot nourish people in real life. Only the emotion of gentle wind and drizzle can protect people to thrive in life.
In the end, Jerry was successful in his career, and he could finally live like a man. At this time, what he needed most was a man Dorothy who was most worthy of his life to share his victory, his success. And Dorothy was there, and a drizzle of love was there waiting for him. As Dorothy said in the film, "You had me at `hello.`" This is Dorothy's drizzle feeling, waiting there for Jerry, waiting for the life she always wanted. For Jerry, only feelings like Dorothy are suitable for Jerry. In fact, Jerry is very insecure in his heart, unable to be alone (it was mentioned at the beginning of Jerry's bachelor party in the film), unable to truly share himself with others, unable to become a close lover, never seen him and others really in the whole film shared himself. An insecure person is always unable to truly share himself with others, because those sharing will be his most vulnerable place, just like a timid and insecure dog who dare not turn his belly over and ask for help He scratches the same way, because the dog's belly is the most vulnerable part of the dog. Jerry likes peace and pursues inner stability. He needs a strong sense of security in his heart. Dororty's Loyalty (loyalty) can make him feel safe (in fact, this is the limitation of Jerry's cognition, and he always lives in his own thoughts). So Jerry ends up with Dorothy. There is no strong love, only the emotion of gentle breeze and drizzle.
PS: Jerry is like an Aries. Impulsive professional testimonials, sunny on the outside, optimistic, fragile inside when frustrated. But be positive about everything. Seek inner peace. In the film why he got married, Jerry said: "Loyalty (loyalty)". Seek inner peace and tranquility. Live in your own thoughts. Like Aries.
The heroine Dorothy (Renee Zellweger) really likes her feeling. I have seen her in "Miss Potter" before. haha~~~
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