Only loss can prove true love

Heloise 2022-04-21 09:01:43

Why would you fall in love with someone? Perhaps one of his eyes, a back, a word, or a gentle tone, or the faint scent of tobacco on his body? Maybe by the time we can finally tell if it's true love, we've lost it.

The reality is so cruel, when we have something, we never feel it is precious, and when we finally lose it, we can recover. However, there is no turning back. Go back again, you are not the you that I used to be, and I am no longer the me I used to be. A broken mirror is hard to round, the original pure love has died, and the only thing left is the false body of memory. The reality is such an irony.

At the beginning, I only longed for one room, two people, three meals, four seasons, you love me, I love you, it is enough. Unexpectedly, the two people who had been unswerving to death would also be severely defeated by reality. Perhaps true love belongs only to two people who have the firm belief that they can stay together for life. So can the love between the people who have left and the love between them still be called true love? Because when she just started to understand true love, she has completely lost it.

They may have had true love, but in the day-to-day consumption of each other, she began to doubt this relationship, thinking that she could not get happiness from this relationship, so she gave up first.

The one who gives up first has already lost. She said she regretted it, but it was useless. If she missed it, she would never come back.

In love, we are always aware of it, and use our own standards to measure the love of the other half, but we can't fully understand the love of the other person. Therefore, we always misunderstand true love for one reason or another.

I hope that a person who understands love can meet another person who understands love. Don't let regret accompany you through this life. May everyone find true love and be happy forever.

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  • Bobby Andes: So, I'll tell what we got, we had a attempted to round up at a supermarket and mall last night just before closing. Caught one of the guys, one got killed, one got away.

    Tony Hastings: What you want me to do?

    Bobby Andes: See if you can recognize the one we caught. You can look at the dead one too, although I don't really think it's necessary, we know who he is.

    Tony Hastings: Who?

    Bobby Andes: Steve Adams.

  • Bobby Andes: It's gonna be rough on them out there, not knowing how it's gonna come. Maybe Ray get killed, for resisting arrest, or coming at home late at night, might get shot by a burglar.