I like you charming, but I won't fall in love with you who don't like me

Jules 2022-04-22 07:01:05

What touched me the most was the role of IRIS, as she said, her love is the most cruel and painful one: unrequited love.

Her words:
Falling in love alone
We are the sufferers of unrequited love We are also the victims of
the curse And the poor people who nobody cares and loves Like a disabled person who can't find a parking space A woman like me I'm desperately single Love that man After three years of miserable life The most miserable day of my life Christmas is hard, no one to accompany my birthday New Year's Eve can only cry loudly and swallow sedatives Trapped in the shackles of darkness because I am hopeless I fell in love with a man, but I didn't get the same reward. I just saw him, my heart was beating wildly, and my throat was so dry that I couldn't swallow. It turns out that all the symptoms of unrequited love in the world are the same, and I suddenly feel that I am not the loneliest person on this planet. . Unrequited lovers, come and encourage each other, Cheers~ My words: always try to get close to her, pay attention to everything about her, and keep your eyes on her uncontrollably, like magic, attracting to do all the little things for her All yearning for her to notice, but all being ignored by her, my mood was so low that I was close to the endless abyss. When I saw her with him, my unrequited love seemed so stupid and ridiculous. I still can't wake up, still looking forward to the day when a miracle will happen.























Whenever I was determined to give up, her smile shattered my defenses.
So Sad



but the good thing about unrequited love is that it doesn't last long. When we are addicted and unable to move forward, the object of our unrequited love will eventually blossom and bear fruit. Like IRIS, he got married. The reality will wake us up hard, let us realize that he doesn't love you at all, and has never cherished you. Recognize that twisted, toxic relationships with each other must end.

For someone who doesn't love you at all, never cherishes you, you will eventually stop loving you. You will have a new life without ta, a gumption of yourself, and no longer live for someone.

Time will dilute everything (of course, you can't dilute dishes with too much salt)

I believe we will meet ta who love and cherish each other and



finally quote a passage from IRIS:
"
however long all that may be,
after all this,
you'll go somewhere new
people will start over
and you'll meet people
who make you feel worthwhile again
and
little pieces of your soul
will finally come back.
Then little by little regain your confidence
And all that fuzzy stuff,
And
those years of your life that you wasted, those years of your life that you wasted,
that will eventually
begin to fade. "

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Extended Reading

The Holiday quotes

  • Miles: [reaching across Iris to grab something on counter] Okay, sorry about that.

    [pregnant pause]

    Miles: Boob graze.

    [Iris briefly surprised, then burst into merry laughter, with Miles joining in with a chuckle]

    Miles: That was accidental.

    [gazing around with sheepish smile]

    Miles: Accidental boob graze. I'm sorry.

    Iris: Change of subject.

    [trying to restrain laughter]

    Miles: Okay.

  • Jasper: You know what I was thinking? When you get back to London, maybe we could sneak off somewhere together. Maybe Venice. You and me in Venice could be good.

    Iris: Do you mean that? I mean, are you free to do that?

    Jasper: Darling, I've just traveled halfway across the world to see you, haven't I?

    Iris: [Iris & Jasper almost kiss before Iris pulls away] Yeah, that doesn't exactly answer my question. So, are you not with Sarah anymore? I mean, is that what you've come here to tell me?

    Jasper: I wish you could just accept knowing how confused I am about all this.

    Iris: Okay, let me translate that. So, you are still engaged to be married?

    Jasper: Yes, but, I mean...

    Iris: Oh, my God.

    [Iris gets up from the couch]

    Iris: This was a really close call. You know, I never really though I'd say this, literally never, but I think you were absolutely right about us. Very square peg, very round hole.

    Jasper: You cannot mean that.

    Iris: The great thing is I actually do. And I'm about three years late in telling you this, but nevertheless I need to say it. Jasper. Wait, I need the lights on. Jasper, you have never treated me right. Ever.

    Jasper: Oh, babe.

    Iris: Shush. You broke my heart. And you acted like somehow it was my fault, my misunderstanding, and I was too in love with you to ever be mad at you, so I just punished myself! For years! But you waltzing in here on my lovely Christmas holiday, and telling me that you don't want to lose me whilst you're about to get MARRIED, somehow newly entitles me to say, it's over. This - This twisted, toxic THING between us, is finally finished! I'm miraculously done being in love with you! Ha! I've got a life to start living.

    [Picks up Jasper's jacket, walking to the door]

    Iris: And you're not going to be in it.

    Jasper: Darling.

    Iris: Now I've got somewhere really important to be, and you have got to get the hell out.

    [Opens the door]

    Iris: Now!

    Jasper: What exactly has got into you?

    Iris: I don't know.

    [Pushes Jasper out the door]

    Iris: But I think what I've got is something slightly resembling, gumption.

    [Slams door shut in Jasper's face. Lifts hands up and screams with joy]