I actually saw someone in the comments asking the heroine to love herself...I really don't know what to say...
I wish your daughter a safe life! Don't let anything happen, or you'll be blamed for not loving yourself...
They are all discussing education and social issues, I would like to mention another point of view:
Thirteen reasons, all of them are from the school, isn't it, then the family has no problem at all?
Hannah is a sensible child, so she won't blame her parents, but her family also plays a big role in this tragedy: when Hannah needs family warmth again and again, his parents ignore her, and ask for it consciously or unintentionally. Apart from being an obedient and sensible child, Hannah did nothing to help her, not even stopping the child from going out in the middle of the night. If the parents grounded Hannah at that time, can it be guessed that there will be some wiggle room in the future?
Livelihood issues take over the lives of parents, ignoring what they should focus on most, and ultimately costing them what they love most.
In the end, when Hannah looked for help like a drowning person, her first reaction turned out to be a black teacher instead of her parents. You can imagine how far away her parents were from her when she was growing up. This is perhaps the most important reason for Hannah's sensitive and vulnerable character.
The point is: I don't seem to see Hannah's parents scrutinizing myself in the play, blaming the school all the time, as if I were the most innocent victim.
It's not hard to see why tragedy must have happened.
It's the loneliest thing in the world to not be able to open up with the people closest to you, and the people trying to communicate with you are just doing errands.
I really understand Hannah and feel sorry for her. To be honest, when I see Hannah, I seem to see myself. Not only are the personalities similar, but many of the plots in the play have been experienced by me. They may be similar but not the same, but I can understand Hannah's desperation and helplessness. Feeling. At that time, I was also very painful. Every time I was hurt, it took a long time to figure it out and come out. Even if it's not as painful now as it used to be, the character flaws left behind may be irreparable for a lifetime. I too, like Hannah, longed to embrace everyone with a hot heart, but unfortunately we were all too naive and always treated badly. They teach us lesson after lesson and make us more and more sensitive and prickly. But I didn't expect to be scorned by the people around me because of this: she is too hypocritical, catch the queen! Just like the vicious circle that Hannah always wanted to escape, a vicious circle.
Fortunately, I survived the most difficult period, I was fortunate to meet my parents who loved me, and I made friends who were willing to listen to me. And poor Hannah, even the angel Clay and the childlike Zach, failed to save this once brilliant girl because of her immaturity.
Hannah, like a living Buddha, wanted to use her flesh to save all beings, but all living beings were suffering and everyone was drunk. Hannah alone could not save the world, and she still failed.
However, I hope that her departure can wake up more people like Jesus, so that the lost can find faith, gain strength, see the world clearly, and love it firmly.
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