I have always said that my husband is good, and I have been trying to cooperate with my future husband to achieve my husband's ideal.
Expectations have been unfulfilled, expectations have been submerged
Don't want lawyers, don't be aggressive, want to be friends.
So it has been weak and broken. Although he has collapsed countless times, he still does not want to admit that he is a victim. I think it's my own fault, my own fault. Husband is fine.
I am really happy when I say that I am happy, but I keep stressing that maybe the problem has always been there, and the tears in my eyes cannot be concealed when I say this.
Both need a husband and be suppressed by her husband.
That is, to affirm her husband's talent, and because of her husband's talent, she has completely lost herself, and her husband seems to pay no attention to anything other than his own talent.
She will feel embarrassed in front of her husband because of her brilliance. Obviously he is very talented and glorious, but in front of her husband, she has become more and more obscure office equipment. He didn't see me as something separate from himself. The hostess said this, the grievances are uncomfortable.
The letter from the male protagonist in the opening chapter and the female protagonist in the camera are sometimes consistent, and most of the time they are not the same person at all, but the male protagonist uses praise words, like polite rhetoric. However, the heroine's words are very sincere, sincere praise, real complaints, affirmation and objectivity, it can be heard that she understands and loves this person very well even though she knows his shortcomings well.
The mother who lacks love, because the father is gay, the mother has always tried her best to play every role, but she cannot avoid the fact that she lacks love. The mother and the eldest daughter's ex-husband and the male protagonist who will become an ex-husband have personal friendships , She thinks this kind of friendship is very good, very personal, and has nothing to do with other people. Even during the divorce process of the female lead, she quietly called the male lead and recommended a good gentleman's lawyer. Although in the end, this very cultivated and gentle old gentleman was replaced with a stupid lawyer with some philistine routine and interests first.
When the dramatic divorce legal documents were given to her husband, he seemed to have no idea why it was like this. He said he didn't know what he wanted, but he didn't want it to be like this. He said he would go home and think about it. to solve? Do you really think about it when you go home? I feel completely confused about the situation, mainly because he has always focused on his own feelings and has not been affected. He feels that everything is fine, but he does not understand why he is suddenly divorced. Being oppressed and uncomfortable is not him. He didn't feel it, not at all.
The heroine is in a state of broken heart, breaking down and crying anytime, anywhere. Her pain is completely uncontrollable, she is lost, heartache, helpless, her eyes are always red and swollen, full of tears, she can't help it at all.
And the male protagonist just doesn't understand the situation and doesn't know what to do. He looked bewildered.
The same fool as the male protagonist is the self-righteous and high-quality lawyer, who wants to dump him in the first line.
The good thing is that the male protagonist also hates this stupid lawyer. He also thinks that the female protagonist is very good. There is no harm or conflict of interest between them. He didn't want to make trouble at first, he just didn't think it was that serious, he was still confused, but he didn't think he needed to tear his face, maybe he still felt that he was not facing a divorce, but his wife didn't know what happened.
Sure enough, he did not give any feedback for a month after receiving the divorce legal documents. He continued to work as always and ignored the matter at all. It was not until he was told by the heroine's lawyer that his passiveness would make him lose everything, and he was still passive and felt that this matter needed to be dealt with. It was his mother-in-law who asked for help. I introduced him to a lawyer who had been divorced three times and married four times and said that he would treat the male and female protagonists as one person. He said that this industry is very tricky and would maliciously fabricate them to achieve their goals, but he would treat the male and female protagonists as adults. This unique humanization gave the male protagonist a good feeling, and he readily accepted this old gentleman lawyer.
A retired old lawyer who is trembling in action with a strong breath of life said: I can't imagine that you all love children and respect each other, how can you be like this...
Dad gets along with his son, and they can't talk together. It can be seen that Dad really rarely pays attention to where the child is. The child is very comfortable at his grandmother's house. He said that my family is here, except you. And for the people in the theater that Dad always said was greeting you, he didn't feel it. Dad mentioned it a few times and ended the topic awkwardly. Dad thinks that the close connection with his son is still his co-workers have a good relationship with his son, but it seems that this is just his imagination.
When he learned from his son that the heroine might live in Los Angeles, the hero really realized the truth of the problem and was definitely irritated. He always thought that the heroine was only temporarily living in his mother-in-law's house, but now he realized that it was permanent. After leaving, he angrily called the hostess and lost his temper.
In my opinion, this anger seems to be inspired by the anger that all of his own is about to be plundered. He seems to realize that the heroine took everything from him, which inspired his fighting spirit and war consciousness.
The heroine was very angry: I was so angry that I was dying, but he only cared about himself. I have interacted with myself for many years. Now you come to me and ask me what is going on?
Next, the male protagonist's consciousness of struggle inspired the inevitable tear with the female protagonist, the gentleman lawyer was replaced, and the stupid lawyer came on stage, and there was no dispute with each other. The female lead found the male lead, but the two sides quarreled head-on. The male lead tried his best to criticize the female lead for attacking the female lead. His language was vicious.
Men always either don't care or take up arms to attack you, while women are always telling their feelings. The heroine gave up communication with the hero. Maybe she finally realized from the vicious language that she tried to communicate with the hero. After all, it was just in vain, she comforted the crying male protagonist.
Then everything is left to the lawyer and the court.
When the male protagonist realized that he could not integrate into family life well, he reluctantly agreed to break up and signed a divorce agreement. Going back to New York and his theater colleagues, whom he longed for, for the first time, he felt that everything he was so familiar with and attached to had become unfamiliar, cold and uncomfortable. Complain about divorce details. As a result, he found that no matter what, everything was over, and complaining seemed embarrassing. A song lets him expose the real unease and vulnerability in his heart. The song sings that someone is constantly disturbing you, but it makes you feel that you are alive. It was the first time that he realized that he already needed a female protagonist to disturb his family life so much. After losing the female protagonist and the child, his soul was soaked, and he felt that he was not alive.
On Halloween, he came to his mother-in-law's house again. Everything was so familiar and familiar, he could even enter without even opening the door, but he was greeted by the heroine's new boyfriend and his mother-in-law, who was once his friend, playing games together, and even himself. child in the game. Everything is so familiar, but he is already an outsider himself, so he can only say to the child: Can you hug me?
I think the male protagonist at the moment really needs a hug and hides.
When the heroine came back from work, the group went upstairs and entered their own rooms to change their Halloween clothes. The doors of the three rooms were next to each other, and the doors were all closed. Once again the ironic picture appeared, the male protagonist could only stand outside the door of the person he knew best, at a loss. The embarrassment of a loved one becoming a stranger. Suddenly a word came to mind: Have you ever thought that one day, your own home, you will not be able to go back?
What is even more tragic is that the son at this time took out the letter written by the female lead describing the male lead, and wrote at the end: I fell in love with him two seconds after seeing him, and I will love him forever, even though it is meaningless. .
The son was very moved, and the male protagonist was about to cry. The female protagonist was at the door listening to the male protagonist recite the letter. That's it. None of us can go back.
There is no ending to the story, because the hero and heroine still have a long life, but the movie is over. It is the hero who leaves alone with the child in his arms. It is the heroine who naturally ties the loose shoelaces for the hero. Then turned around and went to a new home.
You see: we used to be family, loved ones, lovers, I tie your shoelaces for you, order dishes you can’t order, cut your hair for you, and give up fighting back when you viciously scolded me and cursed and wished me to die.
But we still have to have a new life each. I think we can only hope that each other is well in our own years, that is enough.
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