The girls who watched [Jin Zhiying, born in 1982] first and then the marriage story should resonate deeply with the heroine in the play. When I saw Charlie say that when Nicole put the money earned from filming back into the theater, the words "fuck you" rose in my heart. There are too many men who rationalize their careers, desires, and family desires without thinking. Treat your wife as a prop to help you succeed, and your child as an extension of your own desires.
The so-called weak country has no diplomacy , and is weak in intimate relationships. Like Nicole, who has been weak for a long time will make Charlie mistakenly think that you are just complaining, you are joking, his understanding of you, his opinion of you, He has a kind of confidence in his heart that you dare not leave him, and on this basis, all understanding and regression are actually nothing. Many girls want to be respected and want to be a big heroine, so don't let themselves be a weak country. Before dedicating to your family, consider your own needs.
From Charlie's point of view, when Charlie shouted, you used to love our life, but now you decide to deny the happiness we once had, Charlie is really likely to think so. All your silent accommodating or devotion, you are willing when you are in love, and if you don't say it, the other party will not feel that you are accommodating. In the other party's eyes and feelings, you guys were having a good time, both of you. So communication in intimacy is very important.
This kind of counterattack from the weak side is usually dripping with blood. Since it has never resisted when it has never been heard, once it resists, through normal communication, it is impossible to get the understanding of the other party that you need, apologize, and only through normal communication. Expensive legal fees, going through a painful and tragic process, the strong party still feels that this kind of counterattack is unreasonable, until the weak party finally continues to live a satisfying, normal and happy life, the strong party is only possible, vaguely Joachim realized what he had lost.
Here I hope that the weaker party in the intimate relationship should communicate more. Maybe marriage does not need to be carried out in such a tragic way, and let the other party recognize your contribution and express your needs firmly, which will make your life, Much sunnier. Change the way you communicate and you will be happy.
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