Dad, i'm back

Leif 2022-01-02 08:02:00

When I finished my meal at noon, I said: Dad, give me a little bit of your tea
.
Mom said: You should drink the one delivered by someone else. Dad said: It’s a pity to drink it by yourself. .
I said: well, I do not drink
and then into the room I saw the film
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If the movie is good to reach 4-5 stars, then 4 The difference between a star and a 5 star lies in the little resonance. If resonance is the force of one kind of life on another kind of life, then this film is like a mirror, real, precise, not tepid, Unpretentiously see the process of mutual influence between us and our parents. To paraphrase the beginning of "Kindergarten": Maybe it is our father, maybe it is ourselves.

Frank said to little david: You will be a painter in the future, not a painter . Our father will not have two pairs of children like Frank did. They will pin all their expectations on us. Dad told me since childhood: You will be the pillar of the country. Dad also told me: Where did you fall Get up right there. The way david rides a bicycle in Frank's memory should be similar to the way my dad remembers me going to a cram school obediently. I can't imagine how much he hopes for me, and I can't imagine what he expected at that time. What I am like at this time. And what I know is that now, like Frank at the end of the film, he finally realizes that happiness is the best for children.

Family affection is more vulnerable to the impact of values ​​than friendship and love. Lovers who are out of sync That’s it, friends who don’t want to work together don’t do it. But parents are immutable, conflicts, harmony, conflicts, and misunderstandings will inevitably accompany compromise throughout the process of growing up. Slowly discover that parents are the closest people, But it’s not an object that can tell everything. The two places are separated, and the opening words are: How are you? The closing words are both: I am fine. The omitted "good news" in the middle may be the opposite of actual life. From expectation to Reality, it's hard for both of us.

This film also seems to be the process of Frank, an old man living alone, from expectation to reality. Every child has been known to be very good, but everyone has their own problems. Everybody's messed up. The old man's expectations have gradually turned into disappointments, old dramas The deep-bone acting skills reveal a little bit of helplessness and loss, like the pill that was trampled on, or the suitcase left in the airport. Fortunately, the acceptance of reality in the end

brought joy to everyone . Desperate Housewives said in a recent episode: gaby: my kids are my calling card, they are what i have to show for myself. and whatever happens-if they succeed or they don't succeed, it's because of how i raise them. Bigger than expected. David’s last painting is the best proof.

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watching the movie, he walked out of the room and found that his father was not at home. Mom said: Your father was angry with himself and went out , I said I shouldn’t let you drink tea.

When I first got home, I called my dad and said: Dad, I’m back. After
watching this movie, I called Dad and said: Dad, come back.

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  • Art Gallery Girl: He used to say that if it wasn't for his dad he never would have become an artist. He said he would have ended up painting walls, and that dogs pee on walls...

  • [last lines]

    Frank Goode: If you would ask me I would have to say in all honesty, Everybody's fine. Everybody's fine.