Marriage is a deep learning. In the story of Pride and Prejudice, the Bennett family had five daughters, and although they grew up under the same roof, their final fates were very different. The deepest insight, That's it: the quality of marriage is really not entirely determined by family genes, but the most important thing is our own cultivation.
I hope my experience can inspire you as well.
I don't want to repeat the outline of the story here, so as not to spoil your interest in reading the book. I just extract and express the different fates of different daughters in the book with the viewpoints I understand, so that without affecting your reading, you can still Gained different perspectives.
Why not do it?
0 1 Like-minded people are naturally more likely to fall in love.
Recently, there was news that Lang Lang married his bride at the Palace of Versailles. This pair of talented and talented women is a match made in heaven.
One is a well-deserved piano master, and the other is a perfect beautiful performer in the eyes of everyone. Perhaps it is this kind of common experience that can make each other realize the difficulty behind each other's brilliance. This kind of empathy can go beyond age and appearance. A true soul fit.
The eldest child Jane in "Pride and Prejudice" eventually married the elegant and gentle Mr. Bingley. I have to say that love is sometimes because of similar souls.
The two have extremely good personalities. Although Jane's family is always full of appearances, and her mother is even more shallow, even in such a family, it did not affect her own moral cultivation.
She is kind, she doesn't want to think of anyone as a bad person, just like the person she eventually married, she is also an extraordinarily decent and humble person.
Summary: You have to believe that in this world, there must be souls similar to yours, and you will meet such people and accompany them for the rest of your life.
The love gained by the eldest daughter Jane is a fireworks burst from similar souls.
0 2 Complementary personalities, imperfect individuals, embrace the perfect marriage.
The name of this book is called "Pride and Prejudice". In fact, the two protagonists are the pair to be discussed next, Elizabeth Bennett and Mr. Darcy.
These two people are not like sister Jane and Mr. Bingley who are attracted to each other and fall in love. The two people looked at each other unhappy from the beginning, and gradually found that each other was so compatible, brave and bold in love.
The story is a bit like today's happy friends. Mr. Darcy is a wealthy young man, and there are always some admirers around him. These admirers make this gentleman very arrogant. exception.
And as her father's favorite heroine, Elizabeth, as the second daughter in the family, she has a free, easy and stubborn personality and loves to read books. She absorbs a lot of nutrients from books, so she is naturally full of prejudice against some people and things that she is not used to. .
The two people who seem to be on the tip of the needle always feel that they will not fall in love with each other, but the final result is that the two people come together happily. In the process of getting along, although there will be many misunderstandings and embarrassment, but slowly try. The sincerity of two people came out.
Are there two people like this by your side? It always feels like they are not from the same planet, but even so, they still love each other happily in the end.
The reason is that the personalities are complementary. In this world, there is no perfect love, only two imperfect selves, but this does not prevent you from forming a happy family.
What really touches you about this pair is that they can follow their true feelings, rather than being influenced by age, status, prejudice, and all kinds of bad behavior in the family.
Summary: Follow your inner feelings, slowly discover and recognize your own shortcomings, and improve your education to match the person you love. This is the best way to preserve love.
0 3 Hypocrisy, implicated themselves and harmed others.
How many marriages are unhappy because the woman is married to vanity.
If there is one of the most tragic ones, I think it is the youngest sister Lydia, she is the kind of frivolous girl who likes the sweet words of men and thinks that is the expression of love for her.
How many women's unfortunate marriages become his wives because of each other's sweet words and sugar-coated bombs, and finally taste the bitterness.
The man she married is Wickham. According to the current comments, this man can be called "a beast in clothes". He is only hypocritical and seems to be docile and polite, but in fact he is profligate and full of gambling. only.
But why she wants to marry such a man, the reason is very distressing, because she can't see the deception of such a man, what she loves is the vanity she created by herself, her bright appearance, and the one who loves her. , but she couldn't see the shadow behind the light, couldn't see the character of this man, and didn't pay attention to these practical points.
How many girls are unfortunate because some boys have lost their judgment because of the love offensive of some boys. Such a marriage is destined to be miserable.
There is a relative in my family. Her marriage can be said to be very unfortunate. She always likes to play mahjong when she has nothing to do. Later, she met him who was divorced and is now her husband, Mr. A.
She felt that Mr. A was very good to her, and she married this man without listening to the objections of her family. She didn’t even ask why she divorced. She lives in a miserable life now. My mother often helps her, because she can’t help but be with her. family quarrel.
Summary: How many unfortunate marriages are because of being married to vanity, married to one's own vanity and the vanity that others desire.
In fact, I briefly described the different fates of several girls in a family, just to make one point, don't rely on your unfortunate marriage or unfortunate life to give birth to your original family.
Your happiness is related to your own cultivation. Don't blame your own misfortune on your family of origin.
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