Give some care to the disadvantaged group called "gifted children"

Bartholome 2022-04-20 09:01:12

Those geniuses or children who are labelled as "other people's homes" have lost a very important thing in childhood - showing weakness, asking for help, experiencing failure and being weak. At the same time, practice one skill over and over again in the midst of the countless accolades around you—hiding, covering up vulnerability, fear, confusion, longing. Finally let myself believe that what I want can be obtained by myself, and what I have not obtained is insignificant to me. So they didn't learn how to be kids when they were kids, and their parents didn't learn how to be parents.

It was not until the truth was revealed by life that it was scarred to find that the childhood when "the sun was shining only on you" had passed away, but the shadow under the brilliance never left. Just as you don't learn to get off the ground without falling, you don't learn to express your desires without being rejected, and you don't learn to accept your imperfect self without being forgiven in the name of your child. Those who have not learned to be children are always stuck in the same place and cannot grow up.

"The Trenbaums" takes us to the "Genius Family" edited by Mrs. Aselin, and gets to know the three children born to her and the lawyer Mr. Tren: business prodigy Chas; screenwriter talented girl (adopted daughter) ) Margot; tennis prodigy Ricky. The Trenbaum family used the adult way to get along with each other, indulging their father Tren's lack of family responsibility and dispensable role, restraining Aceline's loving wife and loving mother, and tempering Chas's control of everything. The strong consciousness, ignoring Margot's desire to be affirmed in resisting the title of "adopted daughter", blurs the focus of Ricky's life.

Finally, the gifted children of the Trennbaums turned their lives into disasters as adults. Watching Chas, who was neurotic and carrying his two sons in a disaster drill, Margot, who secretly smoked in the house wearing the same coat from 20 years ago, and Ricky, who avoided reality by sailing trips, suddenly felt this way: now They are like a child who is at a loss in the face of accidents, difficulties, failures, and at a loss. And can the sudden and late father's love in the film really bring them out of the predicament of life?

Trun takes the two grandchildren who are tied to Chas's side to try all kinds of happy and exciting "bad" things, directly pointing out to Margot that her marriage is very bad, and encouraging Ricky, who is in emotional confusion, to be himself... ...Tron finally did his duty as a father and gave the film a relatively positive ending, finally letting the "comedy" in the label not fall through. No matter it is a genius family or an ordinary family, the parents should play the role of parents and the children play the role of children, and a neat and tidy family is king.

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