Before watching "Before the Sunrise", I just got out of a relationship. I don't want to say it so hypocritically. The hormones are gone, and I'm still the same. After all, I don't know what I want, and I don't understand what role I should be in a relationship.
When faced with a relationship, we always go all out, but what will happen after all, who knows? What makes us miss each other, and what makes us weary of each other?
Helped me find the soft cloth to wipe the frost off my glasses before sunrise.
Not every relationship leads to marriage, and not all breakups are peaceful. Even in the sacred temple of marriage, there are still people who bring dogs in to urinate everywhere. For many people, one of the hardest things to accept is believing that most relationships have an end, just like making them believe that they are mortal. So in my opinion, the key to a relationship is not how it starts, but how it ends.
Thinking about the end before thinking about the beginning? Who dares to hold hands?
The "beginning" of a relationship can be filled with all sorts of romantic elements: flirting, chatting, admiring each other, falling in love at first sight—even seemingly anything that doesn't make sense becomes a token. Like in the movie, Jessy and Salina are in a claustrophobic listening room listening to that song, everything is just for you to "come here", that's all. So two people fell in love, crazy, deep love, dull, disagreement, tired, "let's break up", "we broke up". Love is a matter of time after the "start", and a lifetime after the "end".
Love itself is cruel, no matter how many degrees you set the refrigerator, it will eventually expire one day. If it can survive for a long time, it has denatured. It's like fresh milk doesn't last a few days, but cheese can last a whole year -- mellow, but also more stinky. Giving love a perfect ending and eating it before it spoils is the real wise choice. In my opinion, the perfect ending before the sunrise should be, the next day, the two people end the relationship with a long kiss, and from then on. If so, the tumbling on the grass that night could really be the most emotional passion in film history. Unfortunately not, for the "next episode" (I haven't watched it yet), the plot arranged for them to meet again after six months of nonsense. This ending, which is basically impossible in real life, completely vulgarizes the film. I'm not in a hurry to see what will happen in six months, but imagine how it should continue after six months, even if the two recognize each other? Will it be six years later? Will it be sixty years later? Are two people who fall in love at first sight really ready to get married? Salina admits she didn't even know Jessy's name when she wanted to sleep with him. Love continues on hormones, but life only needs firewood, rice, oil and salt. The former makes people lust high, but cannot be eaten as food. It doesn't matter if Jessy has no money for accommodation for one night, two people wandering on the streets of Vienna late at night can even become a good story. But when Jessy is still broke after six months, will Salina consider marrying him?
With such a view of love, many people will definitely wish me a lifetime without a wife.
"Love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan", who still pays firewood, rice, oil and salt when they play a hooligan? It's not difficult to get a wife. When you get old, you just need to adjust your mood to the "chai, rice, oil and salt" mode, and you can find a person with the same mode to live your life. Two people work together to become relatives, and life is guaranteed to be full of life. But if you haven't thought about or have no conditions to talk about firewood, rice, oil and salt, let the hormones go, just remember, treat every emotional experience kindly and give them a good death.
You promised not to loose faith in our love when i'm away
You promised so much to me but now you've left me
We go by and then we lie and all these time we wasted
Time goes by, and people lie and everything goes too fast.
Time went by, and then we died, and everything went too fast.
Everything went too fast
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