Hao Scarlett's love is extremely deformed.
In this deformed type there is a universal truth.
People usually mix non-love elements in love, but the strength is different. In such a deformed state as Sijia Hao, it more fully exposed the complex meaning of the word love in human society.
Just after Hao Scarlett was rejected and slapped on the face, another figure appeared, who saw and heard the conflict, and was hopelessly in love with this selfish, willful, proud, go-it-yourselfer. pretty girl.
Since then, Hao Sijia's fate has been entangled with Bai Ruide, a man she should have loved but never loved. A person who should not be loved, she pursued for many years; a person who should be loved, but she ruthlessly rejected. Hao Scarlett's unreasonable choice, but explains how people behave under the domination of complex.
Further down the line, it's worth examining the plot when Scarlett Hawser learns that Ashley is going to marry another girl, Melanie, and she starts seducing Melanie's younger brother Charlie in their presence.
This behavior of hers is by no means starvation in the general sense: first, it is to stimulate Wei Xili, and it seems that this will get revenge on him; second, Charlie is precisely Melanie's younger brother, and this action seems to be showing off to Melanie; Third, Charlie already had a fiancée and was preparing to get married, so getting involved in this way gave Hao Scarlett a vicious pleasure in particular. So she married Charlie a day before Weishley and Melanie.
To Charlie, of course, she had no love at all. This kind of angry behavior just showed that Scarlett Hao was completely seized by her own jealousy. She was unstoppable because of her failure to conquer Ashley, and because of her defeat in the contest with Melanie, she could only be proud of her trauma by showing her superiority by marrying early. repair.
Hao Scarlett took Charlie from his girlfriend's hands, and also showed that she had no moral taboos, and showed her character of her own way.
This is in stark contrast to her mother's character.
This is the daughter's rebellion against her mother.
Further down, the plot we need to examine is the death of Scarlett's first husband, Charlie, on the front lines of the war. As a widow, Sijia Hao was originally unable to participate in any social activities. However, she couldn't bear these rules and regulations, and finally she couldn't restrain herself from participating in a bazaar. This is not only because she did not love Charlie in the first place, but also because of her unrestricted rebellion against the taboos of social orthodoxy. Just when everyone thought she should mourn her deceased husband, she only missed Ashley, her only sweetheart.
At this bazaar, Bai Ruide, as a rich man who raised a lot of money, obtained the right to invite a certain lady to dance. He unexpectedly extended his hand to Hao Sijia. Dancing with people with "bad reputation". This move is also meaningful. She dances with the man who loves her in action, and relies on the man she loves in her heart. The death of her married husband did not cause her the slightest emotional impact.
We see her being cold (to her husband Charlie), infatuated (to Ashley), and contingent (to Bradley) all in one.
Further down, we see a more typical action of Scarlett's style.
In the midst of the war, it became increasingly difficult for her to maintain a manor. In order to pay the 300 yuan tax that was difficult to pay, she had to go to the prison to ask the imprisoned Bai Ruide for help. After being rejected, she left the prison and met her sister Su Lun's fiancé, Frank Kennedy. Knowing that he had money in his hand, she immediately took it away from her sister by means of means, and quickly got married and used his money. .
Here, on the one hand, the spirit of capitalism that money is everything drives her to do whatever it takes, and on the other hand, she also shows that she disregards the ethics between sisters and blatantly snatchs her sister's marriage.
This is not only a continuation of the ostracism and plundering of the younger sister from a young age, but also has a potentially incestuous nature. If her sister had married Frank Kennedy at this time, she would have taken her brother-in-law for herself without hesitation.
She is not bound by any taboo, she is breaking all taboos.
Looking at the history of Hao Sijia's personality formation from childhood to adulthood, we find that she is resisting all ethical and moral taboos. For her own survival, for her own desires, for her own psychological impulses, she can do anything.
Further down, we see that her second husband, Frank Kennedy, was killed in order to protect her. She also did not show much sadness and guilt, because this is a marriage of power and meaning, without real feelings. put in.
She married Reid again, and this marriage was all about money.
In the eyes of most readers, Reid is her ideal lover, rich, handsome, personable, and loves her very much; however, after becoming Reid's wife, Scarlett Hao is still caught in the infatuation of Ashley. .
It seems difficult to understand that a woman who is so selfish, willful, and cruel still maintains this infatuation in the rush of profit-seeking. On the surface, this can be seen as a crazy and paranoid emotional pursuit; it can also be seen as a pure emotional pursuit; however, in essence, it is only because it contains Hao Scarlett's unique complex.
Complexes create pursuits; happiness may be the realization of complexes.
The complex is like a huge net, covering everyone in it.
Bai Ruide was reluctant to marry any woman, however, he married her so that Scarlett Hao would no longer marry others for money. The development of the novel is the story of Hao Sijia and Bai Ruide.
On Ashley's birthday, Scarlett Hao was entrusted by Melanie to meet Ashley. When they recalled the past, they triggered emotions and hugged each other. As a result, they were caught and spread all over the city. Although Bai Ruide's feelings were hurt, in order to save face, he forced the shameless Hao Sijia to dress up with him to attend Ashley's birthday reception. Back from the reception, Reid raped Scarlett Hao into the bedroom, exercising her husband's rights. In this "rape", Hao Sijia really experienced eroticism for the first time, and felt that she was a little in love with Bai Ruide.
Her marriages with other men had never aroused her true lust before, because these marriages were products of vanity or money. Even with Bai Ruide, Hao Scarlett had never tasted real eroticism before, because she always loved others, and Bai Ruide was also reserved because of a man's self-esteem. It was anger that made Bai Ruide break through his restraint and carried out a violent conquest. The result of this was to communicate the lust between them.
Here, the lusts shown on both sides are somewhat evil: Reid is lustful because of the absolutely rude rape; Scarlett is lusted because of this seemingly violent fornication. The lusts never awakened in the life of a legitimate husband and wife are produced in this "rape" which does not appear to be a legitimate husband. This further shows that what she pursues is precisely the passion outside the moral and ethical norms. Her joy and happiness may be a breakthrough of moral and ethical taboos.
She's a woman who craves fouls.
In the end, Melanie died of dystocia. Whisley lost his wife and became a "free" man. Hao Sijia, who has no competitors, can finally get the sweetheart she has been infatuated with for many years, and Wei Xili is also eager to get close to her at this time. But it was at this moment that Scarlett Hao suddenly realized that Avexley was just a weak and incompetent man, far from her ideal lover. It seemed abrupt and perfectly reasonable, but it showed how the paranoia caused by a strong desire to conquer had blinded her.
What a person pursues all her life may not be what she needs. This is almost sad, but it is a common occurrence in the world. There is no need to simply scoff at this. In many cases, the meaning of life is not all about the purpose, but more about the process. If you spend your whole life in pursuit of fulfillment, but in the end you find that what you are pursuing is not what you need, that's okay. It's not too bad to end with regret if something is lost.
In a sense, the vast majority of life is of this nature.
At this point in life, Sijia Hao began to understand that Bai Ruide was her true love. However, this realization was too late. When she hoped to come to Bai Ruide, the other party left without compromise.
In the pursuit of love, Hao Sijia was rejected for the second time. Wei Xili's rejection had driven her to pursue her hard for twelve years. It is conceivable that in the days to come, she will pursue Bai Ruide again. Of course, we can also foresee that if Bai Ruide comes back to her one day, she may not really be able to love.
Hao Sijia's personality has been relatively stereotyped, and she is not so easy to change herself. Four anti-taboo tendencies that are almost incest After analyzing Hao Sijia's personality and complex, we can answer logically why many women in the world are fascinated by "Gone with the Wind".
1. Hao Sijia's story conforms to the cultural trend of the United States and the world since the 1930s. This is the trend of capitalism's absolute individualism, liberalism and hedonism (including sexual liberation) rebelling against traditional moral culture. It is this trend that has promoted the image of Hao Sijia, and Hao Sijia's image has given new impetus to this trend.
Second, in the trend of impacting and rebelling against traditional morality and ethics, there is a content that cannot be ignored, that is, the trend of women fighting against male power and demanding equality. As its extreme expression, there are various feminist movements. . Hao Sijia's story is undoubtedly a typical banner of this type of women's liberation movement.
"Gone with the Wind" is a typical female individual heroism story. The heroine's thrilling progress in life and her fruitful conquest of men have given female readers great excitement. They envy and appreciate Hao Sijia's ability to seduce men, and they envy and appreciate Hao Sijia being the center of the man's world. When Hao Scarlett easily conquered one man after another with her beauty and intelligence, I don't know how many women fell for it. ——This is actually the desire of their hearts.
Third, Scarlett Hao's story is a typical one against mother's power. Hao Sijia's rebellious life and her witty strategy of resisting her mother openly and secretly gave women a happy experience of successfully resisting her mother.
Fourth, "Gone with the Wind" arranged for Hao Sijia a charming man, Reid Bai, who can be said to be the modern version of Prince Charming, and the Prince Charming who was rejected by Hao Sijia in every possible way and pursued desperately.
It is the existence of Bai Ruide that makes female readers feel safe and warm about Hao Sijia's difficult survival struggle. No matter how Scarlett Hao faced the adversity of survival and fell in love with the man she shouldn't love, no matter how Scarlett Hao was self-willed and arrogant, Bai Ruide, a mature, strong, attractive and rich man, always guarded her warmly, and let him scolded her. Don't be ashamed, this is indeed the girl's ideal destiny.
In Hao Scarlett, Reid played the father figure. His presence brings charming smiles and comforts to all the girls who have been cherishing Electra since childhood. The favored daughter can sway and drink to her father as much as she wants, and she can ignore her father's love as much as she can.
In this sense, Sijia Hao's story is still a hidden story of Electra. It takes all the girls along with Scarlett Hao on a romantic adventure following Ashley, and another addiction to having a reliable father like Reed Brad behind. Very beautiful and very hidden, no taboo.
Fifth, although many women may not have had the experience of Scarlett Hao rejecting and plundering her sister, and they may not necessarily have extreme rejection and jealousy towards women like Scarlett Hao, however, they have more or less had such a psychological experience. In terms of competition for men and love, all women, especially women of similar age, are competitors. Every woman experiences same-sex rivalry and jealousy as she grows up. This is a powerful complex shared by women. Everyone wants to excel in this competition and win big. It's just that the norms of human morality and ethics make this competition among women have various restrictions and taboos.
Under restrictions and taboos, women's competitive impulses are suppressed.
When Hao Scarlett competes with other women without restraint, there is often an involuntary underlying excitement in female readers. When Hao Sijia does not hesitate to snatch the men belonging to other women, even her sister, this kind of "fearless" behavior will make many women's inner repressed energy to be released.
Sixth, Hao Sijia's story is a story of rebellion. She rebelled against her mother, against orthodoxy, against ethics and morals, and against the patriarchal society. To put it more extreme, she is a total rebellious personality. In order to achieve her goal, she will spare no effort to take into account any moral and ethical image; she does not consider any evaluation of public opinion; she is deviant, goes her own way, and moves forward bravely, whether it is to compete for men or money. After three legal husbands, she had never felt lust, but she had tasted lust in a rape of Reid Brad, which revealed her almost incestuous anti-taboo tendencies.
Hao Sijia's rebellious image must have resonated with many women against taboos in their hearts.
In modern society, the conflict between desire and moral and ethical norms occurs all the time. Rebellion is not unreasonable, nor is the rule of the normative system so reasonable; but one thing is certain, rebellion can only be limited forever, which may be the law of the continuous development of human history. However, the rebellious force has the urge to expand infinitely. At this point, art comes to help resolve the conflict.
In the story of "Gone with the Wind", the female reader went through a rebellious journey with Hao Sijia, not only was not punished, but there was an eternal Bai Ruide waiting in the distance.
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