On the "trust dependence" and "emotional slavery" of the red character

Adeline 2022-09-28 10:09:38

Only one or two people didn't believe him at first, and he felt it.
At this time, his brain has a low mood because of this distrust, rather than the power to win the trust of the other party.
He was firmly fixed by this emotion, so he didn't think that he should keep his head clear, solve the problem, and win the trust of this person as quickly as possible.
He was full of questions: Why doesn't the principal believe me? even started to get angry.
As a result, more and more people began to disbelieve him, and as a
result, he became more and more controlled by the depression caused by the fact that he was "unbelieving", and fell more and more into the abyss, becoming more and more powerless.
As a result, more people did not believe him, and as
a result, he completely lost the power to save himself.
——In fact, from the beginning to the end, the male protagonist has only been concerned about why he is not trusted by others. The more people don't believe him, the more he falls into the deep valley. It's like when others step on him, he doesn't rebound, but falls even more. , he never thought how to solve the problem.
——The male protagonist doesn't know, if you want others to believe in yourself, you can only do it yourself.
——Not trusted ---> fall down + don’t fight for ---> not trusted even more ---> fall down more + not fight for more---> abandoned

A is the fact that others don’t believe in him, B is the fact that others do not believe in him own instinctive reaction.
Does your B fall into a deep valley when an emotion strikes; or is there a force that immediately drives you to bounce back and solve the problem?
In other words, is the power thing in your instinctive reaction?

What do we do when others don't believe us? Indulge in disappointment, or fight for it?
Maybe we will think, what's the use of fighting, others still don't believe me! Even at the beginning of the fight, and found that no one believed it, it was even more hit and gave up the fight.
Then we are wrong, fighting is not for others, but for ourselves. Fight for not the dog to look at the owner, fight for not to give up because of the negative reaction of others. You can't fight because others don't believe it, and you can't stop fighting because you won't get results. Fight for always for yourself.
Strive not to rely on others, but only rely on yourself to become more and more courageous!

Typical Weaknesses of the Red Personality: Living in the approval of the outside world and being easily controlled by emotions! Once someone recognizes you, you will do better; but once the outside world does not recognize you, you will fall down, without the power to rebound, let alone a rational mind.

If there is yellow in the male protagonist's character, or if there is yellow in his acquired personality, he will give birth to a rebound force, driving himself to think of ways to solve the problem with a clear head.

I also want to say that whether it's blue, yellow or green, it's much better than this mindless red when it comes to dealing with the little girl giving hearts and kissing herself.

To add:
1. I should learn from the adults in the movie and be more tolerant and understanding of children. - They are still young after all.
2. Will the child lie? Will do! But they may just imagine, they don't distinguish between imagination and fact, they may think that imagination is real. But in our opinion, that might be a lie.

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The Hunt quotes

  • Marcus: Bunch of bastards! Bunch of fucking bastards!

  • Theo: The world is full of evil but if we hold on to each other, it goes away.