Some time ago, a girl from Peking University committed suicide, making PUA a rat across the street. So I went to understand what PUA is, and found that it is a knowledge and technology that is only used by some people to do bad things, that is, bad PUA. Since there is bad, then there must be good PUA. After some searching, I found this movie. After watching it, it was really helpful. Some of the lines and plots are excerpted for everyone to learn.
Sixty percent of human communication is silent: body language; thirty percent of communication depends on tone of voice; that is, ninety percent of what you express is not based on what you say.
She needs a real you, but not all at once. You can't overwhelm each other with enthusiasm all at once, it's a matter of scale and proportion, and it's been that way for centuries.
Of course she will lie to you to show that she is a good person because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. What can she say now? She doesn't even know you yet, although it's temporary. Luckily, like all of us, even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants until she sees what she wants. This is the entry point of pursuing a woman, and that is to get her to open her eyes. Create opportunities for love to begin.
Fundamentals: Any man has a chance to captivate any woman, no matter what, when or with anyone. Just do it right.
You can't use what you don't have. Be yourself, don't pretend to be outgoing if you're shy, and don't pretend to be shy if you're outgoing. She doesn't want to know the details, but she wants the real you. She may not want to do it all at once, but she wants to see the real you.
So tonight, when you're wondering what to say, what to wear, or whether she likes you at all. Remember, she's already dating you. That means she says yes when she can say no, meets you when she can avoid you, it means you don't try to make her like you anymore, but try not to screw things up.
Personal image is very malleable. Dressing is not about whether you think it looks good or not, but the advice given to you by others and the evaluation of you by others. The strategy tonight is to relax and give her plenty of space. If she lingers before the photo, keep walking and remember to stay within visual range.
It's sunny and cool tonight, when you leave the bar, take a walk. Ask her how she feels about tonight's exhibition? Which one is her favorite? Why? When she replies, don't stare at her lips, don't fantasize about her nakedness. Listen to what she has to say and respond. Then when it's your turn to talk, you don't have to say I like your mouth.
The essence of life is not how long you live, but the moments that make your heart skip a beat.
(The bar, two busty beauties, surrounded by a group of men) The host walked over: Miss, please bring two bottles of Coronas to the table, thank you. (Stuffing a few bills in her hand) The beauty chases out: Excuse me. The male protagonist turned around while walking and said: Just put the lemon in the bottle. The beauty said: Pig head, I am not a waiter. The male protagonist pretended to be surprised, smiled and said, "Wow, I'm sorry. Now I'm really embarrassed. The beauty returns the money to the male lead: Don't make any more mistakes. The male protagonist grabbed the beauty: I know you are not a waiter. Beauty: You know what? Male protagonist (with a confident look): Otherwise, how can I get you out? Beauty: Why are you doing this? The male protagonist shrugged his shoulders, raised his eyebrows and smiled to show that you know.
Some people are born to appease women, they like women, women like them, it's all natural. If you don't have skills or skills, you can't get a sister.
As for the second-generation woman, the rich second-generation beauty, the male protagonist first Googled her and investigated her basic situation.
Male Bishop Male 2: Keep your head clear and focus your mind when you have a meeting, and if you respond, the woman will respond. Goal: shock and awe. The second woman said she wanted to invest and asked the investment advisor for advice. The second male expressed disagreement and expressed different views.
The second man: If you want to invest 500,000 in your friends, then you should invest. We should not teach you how to do it. We are consultants, not kindergarten teachers. If you want to be respected, you must respect yourself. It's not that you want to invest and ask others to agree. And these guys are your dad's golf buddies. (Publicly refuting the boss) I hope someone can properly help her deal with the public relations issues she will face in her life, we should listen to your opinions, not the other way around. (Then I told my boss to quit my job and suddenly realized that I was reckless and was afraid of running away.)
The second male's body movements are very strong, his voice tone is also very confident, and he is completely on her side.
The second woman came to find the second man, and the male protagonist told the second man to shut up when the second woman faced each other. The second woman said: Most people never talk to me like that. The male lead asks the second male to stand up straight. The second woman thanked him and asked him if he could make an appointment this week. The male protagonist asked the second male to say: I will check my itinerary. (This means that he has a job) The second woman said: I'll give you the phone, do you have a pen? The male lead gave the female lead a pen, and then the second male gave the second female, and the second female wrote down her mobile phone number. The male protagonist asks the second male to keep his eyes on the second female. After answering the phone, the male protagonist asked the male second to say: Goodbye. (close the door)
(Bar) The male protagonist wanted to strike up a conversation with the female protagonist, holding two glasses of Martini, but was cut off by a talking man. However, the heroine is invincible, and those routines can't impress the heroine. The man with words can only use rhetorical tricks, and he can't see the female leader's intention to chase people away. The male protagonist makes a move and is completely domineering. Come up and say, sorry for being late (help the female protagonist to clear the siege and drive away the talking man). In some respects, it is difficult for a man to talk to a woman like you. But on the other hand, should you face these? The heroine said: There are always adversities in life. The male protagonist shrugged and frowned again, expressing sympathy with his body language, saying: Just pay more attention. You send a very clear signal, no earrings, low heels, hair tied behind your ears, glasses but no reading, drinking Martini, you are in a bad mood, you don't have enough beer, and what's more, your face is still The words "Go away" were written. (The male protagonist made an analysis, which caused the female protagonist to laugh.) Then he stated his purpose: whoever thought of a man would sit next to her, she was just curious about her identity. The heroine said she couldn't think of it, and asked the hero what the man would say? The male protagonist reported himself: My name is Alex, and I am a consultant. After that, the masters played some tricks. In the end, the man left and said that each of them will live their own lives, and they will live well, and it is a pleasure to meet you. He got up and left without looking back. The waiter came over and said to the hostess: The gentleman asked for your wine. The heroine also got up to look in the direction where the hero was leaving.
The male protagonist is a person with bottom lines and principles, and he doesn't play the trick of going to bed and leaving. He later said his job was not to deceive, but to create opportunities. The male protagonist learns the female protagonist's name, place of work, and occupation. Sending a walkie-talkie to the hostess, this operation can be said to be excellent. It seems that everything is controlled by the male protagonist. First sentence: I hate calling women who don't give their number, so don't call. (Showing why he used the walkie-talkie, this really surprised everyone.) Then the male protagonist expressed his intention and wanted to invite her to have dinner with her on Friday. The hostess said no, she was going to a few parties. Then the male lead said Saturday. The hostess said I have a date. The male protagonist was rejected twice and began to use words: Do you know the definition of "indomitable"? Miss Melas. The hostess said: An annoying excuse? The male protagonist didn't care what she said, and then explained: continue a certain action, regardless of obstacles, opposition or any setbacks. Then the heroine said: Well, how to send you, "big dictionary". (Gives him a nickname, has an indicator of interest) The male protagonist said: Breakfast, Sunday, that doesn't even count as a date. People you don't know eat breakfast too. The hostess agreed. But the male protagonist finally reminded her that she forgot to say OVER, and the female protagonist asked him the time and place, and by this time she had already laughed. The male protagonist said: At seven in the morning, North Pier, over. Then the courier brother gave her something. (Everything is in the calculation of the male protagonist)
First date: Went to the pier for a steamboat. Went to a nearby attraction. The female lead asked the male lead, do you know this? The male protagonist said: Of course I know, otherwise why would I bring you here. Then, when the explainer was talking about the wall of kissing, he joked with the heroine, and the heroine took the initiative to push him (physical contact). This date makes the heroine feel that the hero is quite interesting and has a good impression. Although two tragic things happened.
There are two male bishops and two female bishops. Called to say I couldn't go to the Wednesday meeting. When the hostess asked when there was time, the male bishop and the second male said: Not sure, the schedule is full next week. Then you say you're going to the Skyline Studios for the costume show tonight, and your designer friend Maggie might be interested in attending. The heroine said of course, the second man said it was great, I'll pass you on to my secretary. (I said earlier that I don't have time next week just to make an appointment tonight)
The male bishop and the second male should be like an iceberg when dating, with 90% of the volume hidden under the water. Accounting and work are only a small part, and the real Abit has more connotations. It's going to be noisy there, so it's a natural way to break the touch barrier. Go to the loudest place and ask her what she wants to drink. Leaning up, put his hand behind her waist, and asked her ear as if telling a secret. Too high means I just want to be friends, too low means I only have sex with you. Also, when she talks to someone and introduces you, shake hands firmly, speak loudly, let them know you are there, and show that you can be her escort. A woman knows you're being honest, so there's no need to pretend because you're a great person and you treat her differently than other men. In the end, the protagonist tonight is not her, but her good friend. The close friends in the boudoir will influence the relationship between the two, so it must not be messed up.
In fact, the fat brother is quite good at chatting. When he recognizes the wrong person, he says to the girl who held the wrong hand: Your hand is so soft. Then shake hands with Maggie: wow, yours too. The fat man asked Maggie: Where did your inspiration come from? (Suddenly asked what the other party wanted to show, and he was in his heart.) After listening carefully, Fatty exclaimed: Creativity can always surprise me. Then change the subject: who wants to eat spring rolls. Then the conversation changed: your tie is great, your outfit is stylish. This made Maggie's impression of him very good. At the end of the show, Maggie put on the clothes for the second girl intimately. Ask the second man: Are you a Knicks fan? The second male replies: It is when they play well.
About dancing, if you can't, you can do like the male bishop, but the fat man is very good at it. The male protagonist later taught him: a dance, a look, a kiss, that is your only chance, and one time makes a world of difference. Either he was happy from now on, or he was just an ordinary friend.
In front of the house, the woman played with the keys, indicating that she wanted to be kissed. The secret to kissing is ninety percent, and then waiting for the other person to complete the last ten percent.
The man's second date. The male protagonist is very humorous in front of the female protagonist and will make some harmless jokes. But the male lead is allergic. The male protagonist drank too much syrup and got drunk. Just lying in the hostess's house. The two chat. In this space, it is easy to open the atrium. The hostess confessed her heart, and about her sister, it was family affairs. Then the male protagonist read her coldly: I believe it. This became your heart knot, right? One moment you were flying carefree and then watching your life fall apart in the rain. The male protagonist said that he left scars in his last relationship. Getting up the next day, the male protagonist thoughtfully went out to buy breakfast. Since I didn't know what the hostess was drinking, I bought a large cup of cappuccino, latte, earl grey tea and milk. Later in the conversation, I showed my high value: I am a morning person and start each day with a purpose.
From the first meeting, to the first date arranged by the male lead, and the second party arranged by the female lead. Then he slept at the hostess' house that night, got up for work, and the two kissed.
The second date of the second male was at the stadium. The second male dances well and then whistles. Exactly what the girl wanted. The second woman whistled to make a fool of herself, and the second man just got mustard on her body to make a fool of herself. When he came home from the date, the second man opened the door for his daughter. Here to complete the kiss, the second male did not dare, but in the end, he was overwhelmed and kissed anyway.
However, the movie is not over here, things are exposed, and there is nothing to see. But in the end, the scene at the male lead's house was okay. The female lead drank and said, "I think about it, what should we respect?" The male protagonist said: Never lie, steal, cheat or drink. Really want to lie, say it in the arms of the beloved. If you really want to steal, steal from those bad people; if you really want to deceive, you deceive death; if you really want to drink, drink for the moment of your heart. (There is also a cup for tomorrow, a cup for the past; a cup for the morning sun, and a cup for the moonlight) In the end, the two fought, and the male protagonist splashed the female protagonist with vegetables. Hahaha, never show weakness, never be bullied, and when it's time to fight back, you must fight back.
The male protagonist still finds the female protagonist to express his heart. Finally clear up the misunderstanding. There is a paragraph that needs to be excerpted: Have women ever thought that men will be nervous, so they have to plan in advance, he is not sure what will happen when he expresses his mind directly. Let them relax and let some good men have a chance. You know how hard it is to love someone, and how many good men like him are helplessly watching their loved ones pass by and helpless. A look, an expression, a joke may be able to change the status quo.
Later, the female lead found the male lead to apologize. The male protagonist said: After a certain point in time, I will not eat back grass. Later, the male protagonist found out that he really liked the female protagonist, and turned back to her. The male protagonist expressed his intentions, and the female protagonist said: We should live our own lives, so maybe we will live well. Even though the male protagonist saw another man hugging the female protagonist, but he did not show the relationship, he said: What if "good" is not enough? (The heroine can't hold back) What if I want "better"? The hostess turned back and said: There is no such thing. The male protagonist said: I like you very much, so here I am. The hostess said: What about before? The male protagonist said: I am a man, is there a right time when a man speaks? The female lead left, and the male lead said in front of another man: I don't care who he is. All I know is that he won't treat you the same as me. Finally, I said a love story: When I fell to the ground, you were the only one who could make me feel like I could fly.
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