What I see is that you give your children the right to grow up, respect them, guide and encourage them appropriately, because your attitude is a mirror, and when you treat them as sensible individuals, they will be too.
I thought, if I met a kid like this walking down the road, would I let him come to my house, I probably wouldn't, I might do some other helpful things. But the important thing is that you must lead by example when you truly love someone or teach your children to grow up to be kind and upright people.
Some things can hold on. I have seen small details. If the family is basically already eating, even if I see the brought child eating alone, will I let everyone get together to eat again? I may be worried about tossing. But if it's important for Michael to integrate into the family, if the family can love him as much as I do. Because women are delicate and can see where men can't, you know it's right, please be appropriately strong and maintain principles.
Knowing your child will help you know how to help him and not be in a hurry when he can't see clearly. Especially when everyone loses confidence in him, you believe in him, you will encourage him, guide him, everyone has their own potential, because he is your child, you know his advantages better, tell him your own Blind spot, guide him how to do it.
Children will have their own perspective, they may not see clearly or understand, but they may also see things you can't see, don't blindly tell him what to do, understand what perspective he sees things from, you are From what perspective to see things, communicate, in order to better help them. But what's really wrong is that things can't be condoned at all.
Finally, respect, whether it is respecting children, respecting others, or even respecting yourself, everyone, including yourself, is an independent individual. Don't impose the consciousness of one individual on another individual. You can express your opinion, and the other An individual allows him to think independently, undertake independently, and truly grow.
I think there are a few scenes that are very moving. The mother brings out the food, everyone sits at the table to eat, the father says to the child to thank the mother, or the family sits chatting and watching TV. Maybe I grew up without my parents when I was a child. I told lx that I lacked love. I wanted to create a feeling of home. When lx was not at home these days, I thought maybe it was like what Li Xinpin said in the books I read these days. , give what you lack the most, and you will get more; and it is not even giving, there is such a person, you are willing to wash his hands and make soup for him, and watch him sit at the table and eat his food cleanly and happily Talking about the daily news of family and state affairs, the corners of the mouth keep rising, that is already happiness.
In my eyes, the protagonist of this movie is the mother. Because, my dear, I also want to be your good wife and a good mother.
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