The vindicators are angry that marriage without love is immoral, or in other words, why marry without love?
Regrettably, there are many such situations. Our ancestors, down to your cousins and cousins, for various reasons, more or less, turned their backs on love and chose a makeshift marriage.
But the one I'm talking about is more than that. The one I'm talking about is still loving, but getting tired day by day, gradually reaching a state of ignorance. I think this is the state of most marriages today.
I don't know if you have this feeling: sometime, in a dazed and lonely afternoon, you slumped lazily in a corner somewhere, maybe on the sofa, maybe on the toilet seat, maybe on the TV that you don't understand Before, you will be surprised to find that the only difference between yourself and the dead is that you are still breathing weakly.
This dying state of existence, like the spiral airflow, brings you to such critical points from time to time. Marriage is like that sometimes.
A loveless marriage is actually very simple, and it is not troublesome to deal with. Anyway, there is no love. Not so with love. When the trivialities of life put out your last passion like a breeze blowing a blue flame on a fire extinguisher, you will feel that marriage becomes powerless, lethargic, all the heat of the past. Spicy and ferocity are as distant as legends, and the rest is a pale and indifferent life, like a dead fish on a market chopping board.
I am too pessimistic to say this. It does not mean that I completely deny love and marriage, but what I am saying is the general truth. As long as you have been married for more than 7 years, no matter if you are itchy or not, this kind of fatal marriage collapse You must have had it. Maybe cohabitants feel the same way?
Powerlessness, yes, I think the most accurate adjective is this, powerlessness.
When we reach this state, marriage becomes dangerous, either to the left or to the right, if you don't grasp it well, your marriage jeep may get out of control and plunge into the abyss of fate.
Having said that, what is the nature of these phenomena?
That is human greed.
It’s like making love. We like the pleasure of those few seconds, and then in order to continue to get such pleasure, we will continue to raise our threshold until one day we can’t improve it, and then we will be punished by frigidity.
It is a mistake not to cherish the little things. But it's much more than that.
Another mistake is for people with a slimy temperament, who are born visionaries and lunatics, full of colorful assumptions and expectations about the future, once it turns out that reality is so dirty and pathetic, life is so Boring and bland, life is so cruel and ugly, such people will be disappointed until one day despair, and then all the opponents are full of resentment, including marriage, because marriage is an important source of inspiration for this feeling. The result is a feeling of powerlessness, which directly leads to death from depression, or escape.
The women in "Eyes Wide Shut" are all runaways trying to get rid of marital prostration, but to no avail.
The men in "Eyes Wide Shut" are all depressed, but some chose to vent, while others failed, such as poor Liang Laotang, who repeatedly tried to learn badly, but had no chance or success.
In the end, in order to make do with it, the two had to continue acting, and continue to carry on the collapse and powerlessness in their marriage. God knows when they can't stand this fake life and get out of the way?
So, unmarried younger brothers and sisters, open your eyes, open your eyes, dissect the hearts of the hero and heroine in the marriage around you, listen to their voices, and see if they are happy? Then decide whether you want to jump into the honeypot, or the fire pit.
If you are a slimy person, like this heroine, arrogant and delusional, you better not get married, marriage is both a bondage and a hurt for you, and it also hurts you with love or no love Your partner, you'd better be a single DINK, who you want to sleep with, and who you want to sleep with, and then break up with each other, so that you won't be able to sustain and escape, and ask for trouble.
This film is great enough to be used as a teaching material for premarital examination, so that all the little boys and girls who are dizzy with happiness will take a look and ask themselves, are we ready?
Similar to this film, there is also "Love is a son of a bitch". After watching these two films, you will say: Love is a son of a bitch, and marriage is a son of a bitch!
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