Don't let the best be the enemy of happiness now

Keegan 2022-04-20 09:01:14

Frankly, I probably wouldn't have watched "Up in the air" if it wasn't for the news reports that George Clooney had already won an Oscar for this film. The design of the poster is that three shadows stand in the waiting hall, gloomy and cold. In today's high pressure, I don't need such a thing to add to my luggage.

In fact, it tells a very simple story. Ryan, played by George Clooney, is a "flying trapeze" whose job is to go to companies across the country to fire employees, endure each other's tears, self-deprecating and scolding, and face each other with cold eyes. He said, "To konw me is to fly with me, this is where I live." The airport is home to him, and all the unbearable criticisms of ordinary people during travel are just synonymous with warmth. Ryan will also give lectures. The general content is how to reduce stress. He compares life to a big backpack full of things. We are naturally tired when we carry it. We should learn how to subtract, take out unnecessary things, and pack lightly. Go into battle. Don't think it's just a speech he made up, Ryan did it in his life, the director recorded in detail how Ryan organized his suitcase, neat, clean and free of extra items.

He has no girlfriend, no warm house, and no family that he gets along with day and night, but even though he lacks these "necessities" in our eyes, he is still happy and still enjoying it. But the director did not let Ryan go, he must let Ryan return to the family, recognize the warmth of family, recognize the happiness of being accompanied, so Alex appeared, she and Ryan are doing similar occupations, and they also need to fly day and night , they are calculating the next reunion place, although there is no in-depth conversation, but in such a lonely trip, in such a deep night, company is the best antidote.

Finally, Ryan has another thing, which is her sister With the photo of his fiancé, this extra thing couldn't fit into Ryan's original suitcase, so it formed a funny picture, with two heads exposed on the huge drag box.

In fact, this photo is not a simple photo. The moment Ryan decided to go back to his hometown to attend his sister's wedding, the moment he invited Alex, the original Ryan was gradually disintegrating. He was about to be surrounded by warmth and about to fall in love. Also about to discover the sorrow of life.

The director tries to explain the importance of being accompanied. In this society where interpersonal relationships are gradually indifferent, we gradually prefer to do everything alone. For example, more and more people are willing to travel alone. The best-selling books on the market are In "Five Years Alone", we ignore family, others, and how wonderful it feels to have "people" around.

But is it really so? The question I most want to know after watching this film is not what would happen if Ryan was a person who valued his family, but what would happen if he continued to fly "heartless"? The answer is obvious, he will still be happy, such a flight has not dehumanized him, and every employee he has fired can leave peacefully.

Having someone with you is the best state.

But don't let the best be the enemy of present happiness.

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Extended Reading
  • Darren 2022-03-21 09:01:21

    "It says on your resume that you have a minor in French culinary skills. Most of the students work in KFC, and you work in the Matador restaurant to make money. Then you graduate from college and come here to work. They gave you the salary at that time. You gave up your dream? When will you turn back to do what you really like?"

  • Salvador 2022-04-23 07:01:22

    life is better with our company. . . Too bad it's nothing

Up in the Air quotes

  • Natalie Keener: [using Ned as an example to fire someone over the internet using video conference] Mr. Laskim, The reason we're having this conversation is because your position at this company is no longer available

    Ned: [reading the script he was given] I don't understand I'm fired?

    Natalie Keener: Hearing the words "you've been let go" is never easy change is always scary but consider the following: anybody who ever built an empire, or changed the world, sat where you are now. And it's because they sat there that they were able to do it.

    Ryan Bingham: [while watching her presentation, quietly to a colleague] that's my fucking line

    Ned: what happens now?

    Natalie Keener: This is the first step in a new process that will end with you at a job that fulfills you

    Ned: Yeah, but how does it work?

    Natalie Keener: You're going to take the packet in front of you review it, all the answers you're looking for are inside. Start filling out the necessary information and before you know it and before you know it you'll be on your way to new opportunities. I need you to go back to your desk and putting together your things. As a favor to me I'd appreciate it if you don't spread the news just yet panic doesn't help anyone

    Ned: I understand

    Natalie Keener: [to the staff] give it up for Ned

    Natalie Keener: [concluding her presentation] You can start the morning in Boston stop in Dallas over lunch and finish the day in San Francisco all for the price of a T-1 line. Our inflated travel budget increased by eighty five percent, more importantly to you guys on the road, no more Christmases in a hotel in Tulsa no more hours lost to weather delays you get to come home.

  • Ryan Bingham: Tell me you're not taking this seriously

    Craig Gregory: [in his office] That's why I brought the entire company in from the road because I'm not "taking this seriously"

    Ryan Bingham: There's a methodology to what I do there's a reason why it works

    Craig Gregory: Coke and IBM have been this for years are you familiar with them? Just like everything else it'll take a few months for the transition then everyone's going to settle in

    Ryan Bingham: Who are you taking off the road?

    Natalie Keener: How are not getting this? You're grounded everybody's grounded it's done

    Ryan Bingham: What we do is brutal and it does leave people devastated there's a dignity to the way I do it

    Craig Gregory: Like stabbing them in the chest instead of the back?

    Ryan Bingham: Am I the only one that sees by doing this we're making ourselves "irrelevant"?

    Craig Gregory: No we're making you "irrelevant",don't blame me blame the high fuel costs, blame insurance premiums, blame technology you better watch yourself you're too young to become a dinosaur

    Ryan Bingham: I'm not a dinosaur

    Craig Gregory: I want you to show her the ropes

    Ryan Bingham: I'm not the only one who knows what's going on here, get someone else to do it you're very confident that this girl doesn't know what she's doing I don't think setting a MySpace page qualifies you to rewire an entire company

    Craig Gregory: Great then here's your chance take her out there show her the magic, take her to the paces

    Ryan Bingham: I'm not a fucking tour guide

    Craig Gregory: We're ringing the bell and rounding everybody up you want to stay out there your welcome to but you will not be alone you let me know