One's excuse to bring down another is always love

Camryn 2021-12-10 08:01:40

On one side is Wall Street's ups and downs of financial elites, strong, indifferent, but substantial-a person who can see that Christmas is a illusion of "life is good" at all, and he is fully qualified to say that he "does not lack anything."

On the one hand is Loser, who has earned a four-room and double-bathroom house for half his life, a mediocre dad, and a wife who work as a public welfare lawyer for others, relying on his own income from selling tires in a specialty store to support his family, and can not even afford a serious suit. …

If J was retained by K when he graduated from university, and he didn’t go to study for a year, he would no longer be an elite, but the Loser—the first time he was dragged down by K’s love.

The most important thing is that J has the ability to take the whole family back to Wall Street after crossing, but was rejected by K on the grounds that "the children are used to the schools in the country, and New York is not suitable for them to live in". . . J unexpectedly "woke up" and followed her home-once again dragged down by the so-called love. It's maddening.

The tragedy of the combination of two people with completely different ambitions is like this. One adapts to the other, changes one's personality, hobbies, lifestyle, and even life pursuit... In this film, it is called "understanding what love is." . . .

Family and career are completely compatible things. In this film, they have become contradictory opposites, and then praise this kind of negative love textbook full of mismatched pains, and even touched so many people, all of whom have never fallen in love. Stupid boy? It also preaches that it is better to live a small life, and that if you have money and have power, you have to feel cold-this view is not only stale, but also so acidic.

Besides, I believe that capable people will realize their own value in life from their careers. Only Loser, who can’t work hard for his career, puts his self-worth in running a family with all his heart, betting on people who don’t know where and what generation. future. . . Who wouldn't have children? ? Even if you haven't raised it well, you can stately claim that I love it with all my heart-look, the life of Losers using love as an excuse.

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  • Annie: They did a pretty good job.

    Jack: Who did?

    Annie: The aliens, in the mothership. You look just like him.

  • Kate: How can you do that?

    Jack: What?

    Kate: Look at me like you haven't seen me every day for the last 13 years.