If he's coming again. The
last sentence is really humble and sad to a certain level. I am afraid that many women have had similar experiences.
Obviously he loves her, but he doesn't want to live in her world, so he occasionally appears in her life from time to time. She is clearly a financially independent woman and will not bring him any material burden, but he is unwilling to get married, avoiding that direction and all questions about that direction.
I don't know if it was deliberate or unintentional, but he created a mysterious atmosphere anyway. She didn't know when he would come to her world, and she didn't know when he would leave. So while waiting day after day, she runs her own business and takes care of everything so that the mysterious person can come with peace of mind.
The insecurities that can leave at any time have a desperate power that makes her, like Zhang Ailing said, low to the dust. A fluke slowly emerged in her heart. Perhaps the topic followed his thoughts, and he would be willing to accompany him more. So their topic will not be her farm, she will not have several problems that she needs to solve or have overcome, and will always revolve around his work and his experience on the African continent.
He took his shotgun, servant, and Mozart across the African continent, occasionally flying that plane, as brave and fearless as an ancient knight.
I'd be with you, if I wanted to be with anyone.
He comes and goes freely, like a gust of wind, fast and unrestrained. He said he would not love her more for the sake of a marriage letter. He said he would also feel lonely and even die alone, but he said he thought it was fair. He didn't say one more thing, yes, yes, he is free, he has the right to choose freedom.
Thinking of the meaning of travel, the very resentful sentence at the end, "You leave me, is the meaning of travel." He said that traveling in order to leave you is not meant to hurt you. She said, but it really hurt me.
Marriage does not make him her person, and a marriage letter does not make him love her more. So he does not need to get married. But a woman's only remaining self-esteem has struggled with her extreme lack of security for a long time. Perhaps because she loves him more than he loves her, her self-esteem has finally been defeated. They are finally separated.
Regardless of whether he came back when her career was in a mess, whether it was guilt or love, and whether it was because of his gentlemanly manners or chivalry, even if they were together again, he was still in freedom and love. Time tends to be free, and she still feels insecure because she loves more, they still can’t last.
Therefore, death is his best ending. If he does not die, she will never get a real sense of security.
Woman, woman.
Yi Shu said that a marriage proposal is a man's greatest compliment to a woman. Is marriage the patron saint of women? Nowadays, when the economy does not depend on men and the social status is not much lower than that of men, why are women so eager to walk into the besieged city?
Why is it that only men realize that they have a choice between love and freedom, while women directly ignore the need for freedom, or that women hardly realize that they have the need for freedom?
It would be great if women could love less.
Choose a beautiful warm winter, meet a comfortable man on a seaside island, spend a few days drinking coffee, reading, shopping, fishing, and telling stories, then wave your hand and say, and never contact.
Choose a hot summer and come to Lhasa alone. Maybe you will meet a strong man who will have sex until dawn at an altitude of more than 4,000 meters, put on your clothes and take out wine, drink and watch the sunrise, if you can come next time Gather, if not, go to the next brigade station.
To borrow Zhang Ailing's words, women...women talk about men all their lives, think about men, and complain about men, forever and ever.
What went out was not Africa, but the emotional world of the woman's resentment.
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