First of all, I'm not a professional film critic, and I don't know how to play chess. I'm the one who will be asked: Can you help me find out my child's birthday and what kind of talent he has? How does it need to be cultivated?
I will talk about this drama from the perspective of a warlock. When you expect your child to be not an ordinary person, it takes a lot of effort.
In my academic field, everyone's horoscope couldn't be fairer. The successful person you think, the genius you think, will not lose those bad elements in the arrangement of his life. For example, the heroine, her parents' original family, and what ordinary children have, she lacks. For example, in her spiritual world, when she sees other people laughing and falling in love on the campus lawn, she can't do that. To give the simplest example, there are ten sugars in the jar of our life, six of which are sweet, two are neither sweet nor salty, and the other two are bitter. How to arrange? Do you give your parents the pain? to the child? Or to your own physical disease?
Most people only see the success of genius, just like everyone will say to the heroine: Your life must be wonderful. It's like seeing the happy lives of other people in your circle of friends. I especially want to know, if you are a parent, do you want your child to be the heroine? Would you like your child to be a top international chess player but maybe other parts of her life are missing?
In fact, every parent hopes that their children will be well, but how do you define good things? I asked some parents who came to consult, you are worried about your child's further education, can't you not go to high school, can't you go to college? and then? I asked them and then what? What does the child do? work, earn money and get married. . . Some parents told me: She can support herself as long as she is good at it. However, if you started playing chess at the age of nine, would you dare to take this risk? I'm thinking that the heroine's stepmother, like most parents, will change her attitude when she sees that she can make money. Even some parents will still object, thinking that you are not doing a good job.
In fact, everyone wants to have more on the basis of what they have. But fate is not like this. Your two bitter candies must have a place to go, right?
When it comes to naming newborns, I can see that many people hope that everything will be good for their children, but life is not like that. I will tell you that if a child has money, he may be lonely in old age, and if he wants to have a relationship, his career may be poor. If you are rich and have a happy marriage, you may have chronic diseases all the time. You see how you choose, where do we make up and give up?
There is also a cruel fact that not every child has a talent of his own. Talent is something that can't be found. So I can only say that I try to move closer to the longboard and try my best to cultivate the longboard. But with a talent like the heroine, you can see how many chess players she has beaten to see how many people think they are gifted. Maybe your child is a booster to another genius, or a stepping stone.
As the old saying goes, we need to understand ourselves, understand our children, and let our children understand themselves. To be a genius is everyone's expectation, and it is also part of your child's success that you can satisfy your own vanity and represent your own success. No problem with this, the problem is, to know the price behind genius, and whether you are willing to let your child bear the price, and whether you can bear it.
At least me. . I have seen so many horoscopes of parents and children. . I just want my child to be ordinary and happy, and I don't want him to be a genius. . .
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