, I think many people should be the carl who said no.
I came to play at my little niece's house on the weekend and found out that children are so easy to deceive. Rongrong, looking at the computer for more than ten minutes will damage my eyes, so I'll go to my mother to play~ Okay, then I'll go to my mother. Rongrong, you can't roller-skate on the road, otherwise the police will catch you when they see it on the camera~ Okay, then I won't skate. Rongrong, you're a boy~ Okay, but my mother said I'm a girl. Once, we were all people who could only say good things. We didn’t have the slightest bit of wariness and doubts. Because of innocence and trust, or the ability to discern the truth of things, we were able to compromise everything. Maybe, it was true in the beginning. The nature is inherently good, and maybe, the eyes that just came to this world can’t see lies and evil, or maybe, an independent life form from a different dimension is arbitrarily far-fetched in order to merge, but one thing is certain, they don’t understand Say no.
Just this afternoon, chatting with my classmates, I was still reminiscing about how I was tricked by a car fanatic brother when I was a child. It turned out that only after I knew that in the third year of junior high, I knew that the Lincoln Reagan could not fit a swimming pool. Maybe this is not the key. Sexual turning point, but, after countless times like I'm sorry, although my mother promised you, but I really don't have time to accompany you today, or you just pretended to be a gift you bought, so that people think that you are sensible, we will It seems that we have learned to doubt and deceive, even if it is well-intentioned, but we no longer have the ability to say yes at the beginning. We will start to look for the truth of things, and we will dig out trivial events inside and outside to seek clues. These are like air, swoosh, come in at once, envelope you, you close your nostrils tightly, cover your mouth, but swarm into your body in an unorganized, mixed with your flesh and blood, without the slightest struggle ability. Next, we all "grow up", with the help of these "nutrition", we become more sensible, more mature, more cautious in thinking about things, and everyone is making great strides towards a socially standardized indicator, but teaching The author never asked our consent, and we never doubted it, and once we said no, we were marching in a lonely procession, communicating in a dream with a dead self.
Most people's lives come to an end here. But the protagonist, Carl, was lucky.
Saying yes is equal to regaining the innocence of childhood, equal to returning to a weak individual period waiting to join a new world with a positive and kind attitude. Next, you will find that all the worlds are so fresh and colorful, just Like a baby who touches anything he has ever touched, listens to anything she has never heard before, he makes new friends and touches new things. However, in exchange for generosity without rejection, there will always be some germs that this immature baby can't bear, so some things that have been filled will start to rot and disappear, until we start to learn to refuse again.
But this time, we know the joy of yes, and we also understand the pain caused by doubt and rejection. A conditioned reflex that transcends sensibility begins to dominate life, and we slowly learn not to give up what we insist on, and not to compromise on things other than principles. , to return to real life.
However, often at this time, a person who understands is already old.
Thinking about it carefully, sometimes life is so sad. Everyone's childhood happiness is obtained by being deceived, and the sense of achievement in middle age is based on deceiving others. However, in the late years, I finally discovered The true meaning of human life, but has long been powerless, and began to sigh about the childishness of childhood and the futile rush of middle age. After all, no one is lucky enough to meet a woman and a few nosy policemen, and then tell him, yes and no It should not be said casually.
Think about it, how many times you have promised this on the outside but shouted to get out in your heart, how many times you have longed in your heart but rejected it politely on the surface, this kind of life is really tiring, but when the dream jumps into reality, it is always so ugly and so The fantasy, and the reality has never jumped into the dream, if there is, then only this time, buy a movie ticket or simply download it, go see yesman and
wish you good luck.
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