No woman wants to start a family. How many men want to be bachelor for a lifetime?
Beauvoir said in "Second Sex" that women are not born, women are created by nature, and the male-centered society shapes and oppresses women according to their own needs. The feminine myth is a luxury for men. It is explained from the dependence on patriarchy. It is full of profound sexism and cannot conceal the narrow purpose of allowing women to return to the family, husband and child. Recognizing women is also an issue. Independent capitalized people do not need to change themselves according to the design of male power, because women have no fixed characteristics.
Women often sacrifice work between family and work, thinking that love is their greatest wish and the whole life, and family is what they want most. In the eyes of men, the family is only a support and support. They hope that when they return home after get off work, they will have their wife prepare meals and help him open the door and pour tea.
However, life is independent. As long as there is a woman who does not find the meaning of a job and equal economic income, there is a man who has to bear all the social responsibilities of another person.
It is the loneliness of the divine self that connects the infinite time and space. Who can and who dares to take the rights and responsibilities of others as their own?
Friedan said that the so-called female mystery is a conspiracy carefully planned by the male-centered society to lock women in their homes. Women should break free from the traditional role assignments given to her by the society, give play to their female factors, devote themselves to women's work suitable for them, and realize their own value in creation.
The value of life and the meaning of life, as an independent individual, everyone should think about themselves so as to give themselves a satisfactory explanation. Weber said that people are suspended on the web of meanings that they have woven. Everyone should be a tree that grows independently. What I want is kapok-like love, not clinging-like attachment!
On the other hand, Friedan pointed out that the feminist movement is too masculine, and feminism has become synonymous with women who want to be men. The feminist movement’s excessive pursuit of success in the world of men has not positively affirmed the inherent differences between men and women, and embraced and praised women’s special sensitivity to life; feminist leaders lacked women’s innate call for maternity In response, there is a blind spot on family issues.
The gifts of nature do not distinguish between genders. The difference between men and women does not mean the distinction between high and low. Both sexes have their own unique endowments to realize the meaning of life and social value of individuals.
It is not to say that we despise housewives, nor that we encourage them. Everyone has the right to think and choose independently. As long as we can weave a net of meaning we like, the value of people and the value of gender life are perfectly combined. .
The independence of life, I don't want to be a slender and weak climbing vine.
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