A man riding a white horse appeared under the gray sky, white smoke was rising from the muddy ground, and tanks in twos and threes plunged into the mud silently, a dead atmosphere. A grey beginning seems to mean a depressing ending.
"Warfather" Tang had just experienced a desperate battle with his teammates. During the repair period, Norman, a typist with no combat experience, was assigned to Fury, the tank of Tang's team, to replace the deputy who had just been killed. Initially, Norman could not accept this reality. However, the bloody battle made him grow from sadness, anger and panic, despair, and even a short-lived love. However, Norman's comrades were killed in the last battle, and only Norman was left as a hero. At the end of the film, his eyes looking out the window are mixed.
Does a person's personality change?
The answer is yes, the change of Norman's character in the film is a good example. In fact, organizational behavior has also studied this: in 2012, Jackson, a behaviorist at the University of Washington, conducted an experiment jointly with the German Ministry of Defense. They spent six years measuring changes in conscripts' personalities and found that the process of reshaping soldiers' personalities by the army is much simpler than we thought, and it doesn't take long at all. According to the relevant theories of organizational behavior, "people's personality is like a river. After adulthood, although the width will not change much, the direction of the river will change. For a specific personality, people's tendency is in changing."
If people want to change, they must first accept reality, otherwise they will live in imagination. Unless you go crazy, that kind of imagination that cannot be verified from reality will only make people more painful. The new recruit Norman tried the war for the first time, and was extremely uncomfortable. He had his own ideals and values, but he was out of tune with the reality of war. In the end, choose to accept reality instead of mechanically guarding your fantasies. Accepting reality is easier said than done. The best, fastest and safest way is to release your vitality (mostly aggressive) in a stable enough relationship, to be seen, tolerated, and allowed by the relationship, and then you can accept the reality at the same time. Rely on. This is what Norman's team did: when Norman's mind struggled, Don and his team resolutely and harmlessly reversed Norman's worldview, telling Norman with facts that war kills, but we are On the side of justice, we will leave this battlefield alive. Norman, he has also become dependent on this team. When there is support, people can easily accept reality and mature.
Psychological worker Wu Zhihong said that trauma needs to be healed in a relationship. So, I think the most moving dialogue in the whole movie is what Norman said to Don when he decided to stay on the "broken down" tank and fight the Nazis in a final duel to his death:
"I'm staying with you."
Simple, yet powerful. Enough to melt the ice and snow, dispel the haze, enough to make one die calmly.
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