How much do you hate someone to not forgive someone?

Paris 2022-04-19 09:01:08

Have you ever hated someone?

Have you ever forgiven someone?

Now, do you still hate him and cannot forgive him?

Final Battle: Tommy vs Brendan

In the MMA arena, the final battle for the championship is Tommy and Brendan. In the end, everyone learned that they were actually brothers. Why did brothers meet on such a stage?

From the movie "Warrior", Tommy lost his good brother in the army and promised to take care of his family. I think he needs this money for his family. At the same time, Brendan's family is not well-off, and his daughter's illness requires a lot of money. Worrying about money, he chose to go to the game.

Whoever wins the championship gets $5 million. As a result, it attracted top players from different countries and attracted the attention of many audiences. The duel between Tommy and Brendan is the duel of warriors in the movie.

As far as I'm concerned, from Tommy's and Brendan's point of view, no one is wrong, but no one is forgiven.

Tommy

Tommy left his father with his mother when he was a child. He experienced the death of his mother, the death of his good brother in battle, and the lack of his father's company. At the same time, his brother did not choose to leave with him, but stayed. For him, that experience was unforgettable and painful. Therefore, he hated his father and hated his brother.

Brendan did not choose to leave his father with his younger brother because of his love, but he did not get the approval and praise of his father, and took on the burden of the family alone. He didn't know his mother's condition, and he regretted that he didn't even see the last side of his mother. He chose to hate his father, the father who was not worthy of his fatherhood in his eyes.

Brendan and wife

Two teenagers, growing up alone, bearing pain and hatred independently. After growing up, the resentment between each other did not disappear, it has always been burning. However, they forgot their identity as sons and ignored the fact that their father was getting old and getting better.

It is undeniable that when he was young, his father was addicted to alcohol, had no sense of responsibility, had no sense of family responsibility, and did many things that were wrong in the eyes of his son. Time is passing, people are growing, and the truth is gradually understood. Today's father struggles to even climb the stairs, but there is no one around.

He will regret the mistakes he has made. He deserved what he deserved, and he had to make up for the mistakes he made. As a retired soldier, he worked hard to repair this relationship. Wish Tommy would forgive him, and Brendan would forgive him, but no.

lonely father

I can imagine that every night, when I am alone at home, listening to that old tape, I must be scolding myself and beating myself. Men's tears are often left in this situation, and no one sees the tears.

What I'm trying to say is that everyone makes mistakes. If a person who still has a conscience and knows how to repent is begging for forgiveness from others, can he be given a chance to forgive?

When the old father listened to the tape, drank wine and burst into tears in the camera, Tommy's heart was touched. He stood outside the door for a long time, as if thinking about a problem. In the end, he held the old father in his arms. At this moment, it makes me feel that Tommy has forgiven his father. Everything was quiet, maybe the old father who was drinking didn't know it.

Tommy hugs his drunk father

Every game Brendan played, the old father would watch and worry about him. In the MMA arena, the old father has been cheering for Brendan from the audience, although Brendan did not respond and did not stay on him for a second. But every time the old father cheers, it is like peeling off the coat of hatred layer by layer, and after peeling it off, the door of forgiveness can be opened. In the end, Brendan responded simply, what he said was not important, but his attitude was important, as if he was relieved of his vigilance and prepared to forgive him.

Tommy and Brendan's hatred stemmed mainly from Tommy, who couldn't bear his brother not choosing to leave with them, not being with him when he needed it most. Tommy couldn't forgive Brendan any more than Brendan couldn't forgive his old father.

Brendan talking to Tommy

However, why can't they forgive an old father?

The old father has been making up for it. For Tommy, I hope Tommy can live with him and restore the good relationship before. But when Tommy threw a coin at the old father in the game hall, my heart seemed to be hurt, and I only saw the old back slowly leaving. I feel sorry for my old father. How long can he endure this kind of injury, and how can he make up for it?

For Brendan, the old father hadn't seen his granddaughter for a long time, and he never met. Brendan hated the old father, with a bad tone and a bad attitude. I think how hard it is for the lonely old man, especially his granddaughter to not be able to see.

Who can help this old warrior?

How much hatred, how much hatred, caused their relationship to be like this?

Everyone is wrong, but who is willing to forgive?

A PK on the field is the best dialogue between the two brothers, the best relief, and the best forgiveness. The old father in the audience, but no one remembered that a lonely old man stood in a hidden corner, watching the two warriors fighting, and finally wept each other. The old man left silently, there are only young warriors on the young stage, and there is no place for old courage.

Brendan wins the game and leaves with Tommy

Forgive whoever should be forgiven, no matter what happened before, it is his own father after all.

A lonely old courage also needs to be affirmed and comforted, especially his own son.

lonely old warrior

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Extended Reading

Warrior quotes

  • Tom Conlon: So you found God, huh? That's awesome. See, Mom kept calling out for him but he wasn't around. I guess Jesus was down at the mill forgiving all the drunks. Who knew?

  • Paddy Conlon: Alright. Alright. But you get something through your skull, too. You called me. So don't go threatening to walk every five minutes. And since this is about training, you dump whatever it is you need to dump as far as those pills are concerned. I don't want to see 'em. In fact, hand 'em over right now. I know they're on you, Tommy. You sounded like a goddamn maraca coming through the door.