Revenge is a poison

Skyla 2022-04-20 09:01:07

The cruelty of the law is that if you are a gang member, even if you did not participate in a crime, you are responsible for it; the cruelty of society is that if you are a priest, even if another priest sexually assaults a boy, then you are Rapist; the cruelty of people is that if the police can't solve the case, it means that every policeman has not fulfilled his duties, so he can put up billboards to curse mothers.

That's where the story begins, but if it ends, or if Mildred and Dixon drive to Iowa with guns behind their backs to kill the bragging, the audience will be very entertained in that moment. But after enjoying it, just like the Korean movie "Earthworm", when the pleasure of revenge fades away, the pain of life will come back. Therefore, revenge is just a painkiller, but it cannot make you forget the pain.

A society must be full of contradictions, good people and bad people, civilians and criminals, police and civilians, and within the family, every kind of contradiction will inevitably produce a hostility. When hostility gathers, an outlet is needed, and one of the functions of the film is to take responsibility for this outlet. Through the big screen, it can meet the ways and needs of people of different classes to release their anger and appease the vulnerable people. The movie can also tell us what to do after venting, whether to go home and continue to accumulate anger and wait for the next release, or to think about whether there are other ways to solve our problems.

At the end of the film, Mildred and Dixon are in the car asking each other if they are sure the bragging person is the murderer, but neither of them are sure. It is not so much that they are discussing the murderer here, but that they are testing the possibility of reconciliation on the other side. This reconciliation is not only between Mildred and Dixon, but also between the victims and sheriffs they represent, and between the public and private powers of society. This reconciliation is uncertain, and the outcome is unknown, but failure to move towards it will only further destabilize society.

A divided society urgently needs to find a way to bridge it, but what way is a difficult question to answer.

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Three Billboards Outside Ebbing, Missouri quotes

  • Mildred Hayes: [Upon discovering Denise got arrested] Rat bastards.

    [Mildred then enters the police station house]

    Mildred Hayes: Hey fuckhead!

    Dixon: What?

    Desk Sergeant: Don't say "what", Dixon, when she comes in calling you a fuckhead, and don't you come in here...

    Mildred Hayes: Shut up!

    Mildred Hayes: [to Dixon] You, get over here.

    Dixon: No! You, get over here.

    Mildred Hayes: Alright.

    Desk Sergeant: What? Don't, Dixon!

    Dixon: What? I'm...

    Desk Sergeant: You do not allow a member of the public to call you a fuckhead in the station house!

    Dixon: That's what I'm doing, I'm taking care of it in my own way, actually. Now get out of my ass! Mrs. Hayes, have a seat! What is it I can do for you today?

    Mildred Hayes: Where's Denise Watson?

    Dixon: Denise Watson's in the clank.

    Mildred Hayes: On what charge?

    Dixon: Possession.

    Mildred Hayes: Of what?

    Dixon: Two marijuana cigarettes. Big ones.

    Mildred Hayes: When's the bail hearing?

    Dixon: I asked the judge not to give her bail on account of her previous marijuana violations and the judge said sure.

    Mildred Hayes: You fucking prick!

    Dixon: You do not call an officer of the law a fucking prick in his own station-house, Mrs. Hayes. Or anywhere, actually.

    Mildred Hayes: What's with the new attitude, Dixon? Your momma been coaching ya?

    Dixon: No. My momma didn't do that.

    Dixon: [as Mildred leaves the police station house] Take 'em down, you hear me?

    Desk Sergeant: You did good, Dixon.

    Dixon: Yeah, I know I did.

  • Dixon: What the hell is this?... Hey, you. What the fuck is this?

    Jerome: What the fuck is what?

    Dixon: This! This

    [pointing at the billboard]

    Dixon: .

    Jerome: Advertising, I guess.

    Dixon: Advertising what?

    Jerome: Something obscure?

    Dixon: I'll say. Yeah.

    Jerome: Don't I know your face from some place?

    Dixon: I don't know, do you?

    Jerome: Yeah. Yeah, I do

    [spits on the ground]

    Jerome: .

    Dixon: I could arrest you right now...

    Jerome: For what?

    Dixon: For emptying your bucket... That's being bad against the environment laws.

    Jerome: Well, before you do that, Officer Dixon, how about you have a look at that first billboard over there? And then we can have ourself a conversation about the motherfucking environment... How about that?