When giving up also becomes a kind of love

Mona 2022-04-20 09:01:01

To be honest, I just watched this movie for the name of Tom, but after watching "Rain Man", I was really moved by the director's delicacy in filming. I have a lot of things I want to say in my heart. I don't want to involve too much on the brotherhood that is clearly expressed in the film, but want to talk about my father's love for Charlie.

The kind of love that is given up for love:

After watching the film, I couldn't help but think of Mariah Carey's Hero. In life, Raymond is Charlie's Hero, a Hero who has disappeared for more than 20 years. It is family affection, which makes a father choose to protect a son Abandoning a son, Raymond was sent to the hospital. To protect Charlie, his father didn't tell him everything about Raymond. I don't want to put a heavy burden on his weak shoulders. It is conceivable that, as a father, in the face of his young son's various rebellious actions and running away from home, his helplessness and sadness, and the guilt for Raymond.
But the father is wise, and perhaps the distribution of the inheritance is a kind of instruction from the father. Knowing Charlie's father will know the mad look on his face when he learns about the inheritance project, and will not agree to give the inheritance to an unrelated person (at this time Charlie certainly doesn't know who Raymond is), and an angry Charlie will definitely investigate this Raymond.... Rather than trying to explain uselessly to him when their father-son relationship collapsed, it might be best for Charlie to find out the truth himself method. His father left the car and the rose garden to Charlie, things he cherished all his life. Giving them to Charlie is an expression of a father's love for his son. This may be the father's last bit of advice to his son, telling him personal independence, not 300W of dollars for Charlie to enjoy and become a lazy person. This kind of gift value is far incomparable to 300W. It also reflects the endless love of my father for Charlie and endless guilt for Raymond. Rather than giving his car and roses to Raymond, it is better to give His money is a practical item that allows him to live a carefree life. This may be the biggest guilt in his life as a father. To love one person and abandon another loved one...
The second half of the film can be said to gradually push the emotion of the whole film to a climax. In the small hotel, when Charlie accidentally learns that the "Rain Man" is not a character he imagined but Raymond, when he knows that his son The scalding from time to time may be related to Raymond, when he kept hearing Raymond's words "don't burn the baby" and "absolutely don't hurt Babbitt". At this time, Charlie gradually understood, slowly understood Raymond's love for him, slowly understood his father's protection for him, and slowly Charlie really grew up, no longer the one who was obsessed by 300W Charlie who is soul-eyed has grown into a Charlie who values ​​family....

At the end, I don't know what to say at the end, so let's end it with the conclusion of a love movie "a Story about love"

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Rain Man quotes

  • Charlie: [Raymond making remarks about going to Cincinnati to get underwear] Ray, did you fucking hear what I said? SHUT UP!

  • [Raymond is afraid of riding in a car on the freeway]

    Charlie: Hey Ray, I got a great idea. Stay in front of the car until we get off the exit, you'll get in and we'll take a not so dangerous road, whatever that might me. Is that an idea?

    Raymond: Yeah.

    Charlie: Give me five, that's a great idea. Give me five.

    [Raymond doesn't comply so Charlie jogs back to the car]

    Charlie: This guy's a fucking fruit cake.