When I was in middle school, I was having a good time laughing and laughing with my friends. When the little yellow fairy was spinning and jumping, my brain was suddenly taken over by the little blue man, and a burst of inexplicable sadness flooded. Because I think that the joy will end in a while, and the loneliness that has been amplified after the comparison has begun to take effect in advance.
I used to complain about my Moon sign, Pisces. I thought it was the source of my emotional, weak, and hesitant side, and then I secretly rejoiced that my Sun sign was Scorpio and my rising sign was Capricornus. Like two sturdy war horses that don't look away, dragging a stumbled and dumb pumpkin cart.
The account I counted on the constellation was summed up as different kinds of emotions in "Inside Out", and then it was concreted into a few little people who manipulated the center console of the brain. Like rationality and sensibility, they are often clamoring for an optimal solution, but they continue to output unknowns.
Opening your eyes, perceiving the light, crying for the first time, refusing vegetables, laughing until you can't breathe... Emotions are experimenting. The output and feedback build a ring structure, the train moves forward all the way, the rails are laid all the way, and every little deviation may lead to a completely different destination in the end.
Thinking about it carefully, I have also experienced countless such experiments, physical and chemical, and now I am typing, and I am still testing and reflecting.
The film says that decisive memories shape a person's character.
I heard that young parents who are very irresponsible often have very quiet and obedient babies, because even young children can quickly learn which face to face the world with. This is the survival instinct.
The experience is made into a documentary in the body, and each frame will be like pinching plasticine to create a variety of strange and diverse personalities. Character then dictates how you behave and calibrates your direction of development. You think that the choices you make are under your control, but your past experiences are actually making judgments for you.
I like this kind of messy and traceable, and the standard of adulthood is to find emotional balance in the trajectory.
It's as if it's hard for adults to be dominated by joy anymore, and every day there are tons of trivialities, tornadoes that rip up houses and utility poles, forcing us forward. You see in the cartoon, the father's emotions are dominated by the red villain "Anger", and the mother is dominated by the blue villain "Sadness".
But it doesn't matter, having stable emotions is not for the pursuit of happiness, but for a decent shell that protects civilization.
Negative emotions are not necessarily bad. Just as anger can inspire fighting spirit in sports, grief makes you more friendly, and fear reminds you to stay away from danger.
So stability is not the pursuit of immutable positivity or calmness. The one who is always calm is not a normal person, but Jiaming, the hero in Annie's Baby Book.
Stability is about seeing weaknesses more rationally, being willing to accept the dark side, and being able to solve problems on your own rather than pouring your emotions out on others.
While watching the movie, Mr. Dou said that I am very like the little blue man. Whenever something happens, I lie on the ground and don't want to get up. (When I said I was going to write about how to manage emotions from Inside Out, he said "but you are often managed by emotions"...gas!)
But I have long discovered that, in fact, immersing yourself in a low mood for a while, it is true is a cure. In the past, when I collapsed, I would cry in front of the mirror, of course not out of narcissism, but when you see yourself crying until your face is swollen and deformed, complex emotions such as grief, grief, grievance, etc. will be more intense, flash floods erupt Then it will become a kind of self-pity, and then you will find that immersing in pain is a decision not to cherish yourself, and then you want to wash your face and do something else.
Talking back to the movie, the rhythm of the first half is indeed a bit too slow, deconstructing the emotions of a little girl in detail, causing Teacher Dou to ask me if this movie is too young? For a boy like Mr. Dou, who has been so thick that he can't even play with words, it is indeed very difficult to feel the psychological state of the girl.
Anyway, I am very involved, and I will buy it no matter how old-fashioned Pixar is.
When Bing Bong, the pink marshmallow elephant, jumped out of the car in order to reduce weight, Joy was desperately singing a song and rushing up, and finally succeeded in looking back, Bing Bong had fallen behind and could not get up again, and happily waved his hands to celebrate , and then the body slowly becomes transparent. Teacher Dou said that when I saw that scene, I knew I was going to cry, and the next second I buried my head and cried.
A lot of people say they got hit because they suddenly realized that growing up must be accompanied by goodbyes.
I can accept this point calmly, just like Doraemon left Nobita. Forgetting is the law of nature, and you lose it all the way, because you are getting it all the way, and the rucksack on your body is never empty.
My point of crying is more about their desperate effort to achieve a goal. This kind of similar tear collapse is found in "Invincible Destruction King" and "Rio Adventure". Every time I see the comical villain in the cartoon suddenly start working hard, and a sacrifice decision can be made in one second. They will all collapse immediately.
I am most afraid of the tenderness of the iron man, and the most afraid of the funny supporting role suddenly taking it seriously.
I have always liked watching cartoons. Looking at the simplest truth, being said seriously by the two-dimensional villain, it seems that you can re-learn the simple philosophy of life from the perspective of a child.
Moreover, no matter how old you are, the emotional little people in the brain still conduct social experiments from time to time to test parenting, challenge cognition, and cultivate emotional intelligence. Therefore, there are still many exercises that we need to do for emotional management, and we are still far from maturity.
To sum it up with the words of the philosopher Manny in Modern Family.
"I used to regret that I missed out on a lot of childhood innocence, but seeing you guys still playing childish at this age, I knew I still had a lot of time to be a kid."
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