"I don't know. Even dreams are beautiful dreams, right?"
"Why are you not Superman?"
"Because you grow up."
"Once people grow up, dreams will be too. Has it become monotonous? Will I never see you again?"
"If you want to see, you can see me. But those dreams may not be as real as they are now. Then you will know that everything is just in your head Imagination. However, your dreams may also be better than they are now. You can direct those dreams as you like. You can turn dreams into reality."
"Is it like this when I grow up?"
"Well, handsome. That's it."
"I want to be a child forever."
"Why?"
"I can't see you when I grow up."
"You have no choice, you have to grow up." When Deniz said goodbye, he silently asked his father. A promise was made.
He will grow up, and he won't cry anymore.
Because his dad can't fly, but he is a superhero.
Deniz let his superhero leave
because there are new adventures waiting for him. He has
n't watched a movie for a long time. In the dark, a man curled up in a corner and relived the Turkish movie "My Father" that touched him. ,my son". As the plot continued to develop, tears flowed uncontrollably.
Sadik is a radical Turkish youth. His father hoped that he would study agriculture in Istanbul and become a special engineer to manage his family farm. Influenced by advanced ideas, he became an anarchist and became a leftist reporter in the 1970s.
Faced with his father's incomprehension, Sadik ran away from home. His father's roar and mother's crying were all left behind by him. Accompanied by his first love and everything his father arranged for him, Sadik began to fight for his freedom, and started to fight for the country~~ However , 15 years later. On the night when his wife gave birth, this beautiful Mediterranean city was empty, and the atmosphere of terror and darkness enveloped every corner. He could not find a car that could take them to the hospital. He was holding his wife who was about to give birth in the empty The street shouted: "Where are the people? Where are the people?".
The dawn of dawn shone on this poor man, his eyes sluggish and bloodstained, he had a newborn baby in his arms, and his wife's cold body was behind him. Soldiers passing by told him: a coup has taken place in Istanbul. Then, he was imprisoned for political reasons, and was severely beaten in prison. After he was released from prison, he was also ostracized everywhere. He is full of enthusiasm, he fights for the country, but the country prevents him from finding a home ~
home, dreams, affection, loss, hesitation... The idealist spiritual home collapsed in an instant ~ in
order to give a young son a A free home, a real home, Sadik took Deniz back to his hometown where he had been away for 15 years.
The exotic Turkish farmhouse, the large vineyards bathed in the sun, the entire estate world is bathed in the quiet river of love, when the plot develops, the music of the plucked harp sounded at the right time, and then slowly receded, there Waiting for him quietly is his home, his family, his first love, and his father's original wish.
As he had expected at first, his father didn't seem to like him coming home suddenly, and his grandson he had never seen before. A family gathering in the evening, twittering, an extremely hot-hearted old mother. The honest and honest brother Salim, who was in tears, and the straight-hearted aunt who had a holiday with his father. A big warm and noisy family, everyone is laughing, joking, and consciously avoiding some hurtful topics, but the first moment of the reunion 15 years later is the lack of the father who Sdlik most wants to forgive. Sdlik thinks My father avoided him because he was angry with him, but the development of the plot later made the audience smile knowingly, and he couldn't help but fall in love with this stubborn old man secretly.
Deniz thought his grandpa hated him, and saw that grandpa was nailing the soles of the horses but he dared not come close. He asked from a distance, "The horses don't wear shoes." At first, he saw that grandpa didn't answer him, and turned around a little disappointed. How could Deniz understand the true love in Grandpa's heart at this time. Grandpa pretended to say deeply: "No, you can't see the horse wearing shoes." "Why can't I see it?" "Because you are standing too far, come closer."...This section of grandfather and grandson The camera brought the whole image of Grandpa to life, and Deniz nervously grabbed Grandpa's hand when he heard the horse scream. At this time, the grandfather must be full of emotions, and the trembling cigarette butt from his mouth can see the first clues. When facing the grandson's innocent questioning, and innocently calling himself "uncle", the old man's watery tenderness naturally revealed. Sometimes, family affection is really a very wonderful thing. It often bites your heart inadvertently, leaving you suddenly clueless and unable to stop, and instantly revealing the little secrets of your heart.
In my memory, my father was omnipotent when I was a child, and he was the superman in my heart: he often repaired broken household appliances at home, he could often cook good dishes, and he would often go to school to pick you up from school on rainy days. I put you on my head while watching a movie... But then I started to grow up, I started to learn to read, I started to learn to think about problems, I started to think about the value of my own existence and even started to be unaccustomed to the lives of my parents. I began to doubt my father. I began to constantly measure his value orientation and then imposed my own judgment criteria. Then, my father was no longer omnipotent. I often saw his insignificance in some things, and often in some things. I saw his powerlessness and helplessness in front of the things I avoided, and even imposed my own rules of life on him at some point. In this way, I began to betray, just like Sdlik in the movie.
On the night when the two fathers and sons reconciled, Sdlik asked everyone in the family to leave home. He couldn't estimate what the outcome of the showdown between himself and his father would be. He couldn't estimate the momentum of the storm that he thought was bound to come, just like him. It is impossible to estimate how the father's authority will be after the showdown in the face of the son's doubts.
"You want to control our lifestyle so much, but I want my own life, my school, everything about me is your choice, do you know I hate this, Dad?" "Dad, you said I'm leaving No, I don’t have any. I can’t leave or stay. I can’t recognize where my home is. You’ve been guiding me somewhere in my head. Do you know how it feels to be homeless? Dad.” "Do you know why I came back? Dad, in order to give Deniz a room to grow healthily and let him have a home."
We didn't know until this was that Sdlik had his lungs broken due to torture in prison. half. He was afraid that his death would make his son Deniz an orphan without a real family, so he would go home, and return to the home he had left for 15 years to get his father’s forgiveness and let his father give him the money. A healthy home for my son. However, life will continue. Someone will write a new book, but he can't read it. Someone will make a new movie, but he can't see it. He wanted to listen to his favorite song again, but he couldn't. It may be easy to get used to it. He grew up slowly, but he was not by his side, and he couldn't see if he had a girlfriend.
"Give him a home, Dad, give him a home, let him come and go freely."
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All the actors in the film are performing in their true colors and their images are extremely vivid. Each character is so cute that you will love it. When dealing with the storyline, the director used straightforward narratives, and the continuous use of long shots avoided the visual dazzling caused by montages. However, in dealing with drama conflicts, the Turkish director took good care of the audience's patience. The circumflex, the relaxation has a degree... the music of the story plays a very good role in setting off the atmosphere, making you consciously sinking in the unique Turkish style. The storyline is as simple as the story that happened around you, but it is precisely because of this unpretentiousness that I can’t break free from the plot for a long time after watching the film, even though it was done when I watched the second time. Prepared, but when I saw the stubborn father opened his arms and cried after his son died, "If I stood here like this at that time, if I opened my arms like this at that time, if I stopped him like this at that time, If I told him not to leave, 15 years ago, if I stood here like this, if I stopped Sdlik. If I hugged him like this, if I stopped my son... Then he would not leave "At the time, I still had trouble controlling my emotions. The father tore off his shirt, let him cry, raised his arms, his eyes were dull and indifferent. Salim yelled and knocked his father down.
"Have you seen? No one can stop a person leaving alone"! After all, a person has to start to grow, start to think independently, start to learn to pursue and give up, start to learn to question and take responsibility, start to learn to start walking some roads alone, start to learn to bear some of the unbearable things in life Light, start learning to leave home...No one can stop this process.
The fat man in "Yi Yi" said: The movie has prolonged our lives three times. Those scenes are flying, and my thoughts are often indulged in the plot for a long time. There are so many countries that you may not reach in your entire life, there are so many plots that you may scratch your scalp and you will not be able to experience, and there are so many characters that you may turn the whole world upside down and you will not be able to meet them. In all the unknown worlds of light, color and shadow, shuttle from one story to another, from one country to another. At that time I was transparent, happy, and full of infinite possibilities. I felt that I was swelling and suddenly shrinking again unconsciously. My life began to extend and began to expand, but my heart began to stop. Consciously old. Just as I was blooming colorfully now, my smile started to cool down. A lot of the past, a lot of the past, began to blur gradually, the unreality caught me off guard, but I couldn't stop it.
It's over, I seem to have digressed again.
A not-so-famous Turkish movie depicting family affection, which warmed me from the severe cold throughout the winter~
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