It's a really good movie, really, he tells a story, a story that happens to each of us, or perhaps more accurately, to most people, as my title says We all loved that kind of person in our youth, when we were young and ignorant, when we lived in the cradle of youth, when we were full of love and hatred, when we could devote ourselves to the In the flame of love, it burns brightly. Maybe this is the truest love. For such a person, we can do everything we can, and we will abandon everything we have without thinking. This is love. Everyone will have such an unforgettable love, and it is precisely because of love. I have been through, so I understand, so I mature, so I slowly learn how to love and be loved. Please don't deny that, whether you are living alone or living in happiness in pairs, you have experienced the person that you will remember for a lifetime. When you look at the person in front of you, you are immersed in happiness, immersed in In love, will such a figure suddenly pass by, make you familiar, make you nostalgic, and make you feel familiar? I think it will, but we never tell anyone, not even yourself. Just like in the movie, the moment when Ellie accepted the wedding ring, she said, I was wholeheartedly happy when I accepted his proposal, but Noah passed by. At such a moment, we know in our heart that no matter how far we have traveled, we still cannot get out of the shadow of the past. This is love, perhaps, this is the truest love we have ever had.
What do you want?
It's the simplest of questions, and I remembered it while watching Good Will Hunting, and again, there was one occurrence in the movie that really left me speechless. It seems like the simplest question, but it stumped every one of us. I remember a group of people gathered at a party where alcohol completely conquered the brain, and it was just this question that quieted the raucous atmosphere. What do you want? We want a good life, we want happiness, we want to work every day, we want to buy a big house, we want to follow the pace of life, but after a long time, we suddenly wake up and think, in the end What do we want? I can't answer this question, it's a very serious question, but its seriousness will not affect the pace of life and continue to move forward, it will only make me suddenly lost, lost the motivation to go on, go on direction. Maybe the same question, ask a child who is still living in childlike interest, what do you want, he will tell you clearly that he wants lollipops, he wants toys, he wants to be with the children Fighting, etc. In short, he must have a clear answer, answering what he really wants, and it comes from the bottom of his heart, but as a young man who has received many years of education, knowledge and culture, you are the most educated What do you want? Sorry, sorry, I really can't answer this question.
It seems that the above is off the topic of the article, but this is exactly what I want to say, in love, in the choice between the person and your various excuses for separation, what do you really want? We can't actually answer this question either. When you are separated from someone you deeply love, for whatever reason, can you know exactly what you want? Maybe we will find a good excuse, we have no future together, because of the compulsion of life, because of the opposition of our parents, the situation does not allow, we finally compromised and separated, but at the moment of separation, you Really understand, what do you want? Would the result be the same if you really did what you wanted to do?
I think, a lot of the time it doesn't. That's what I thought deeply after watching this movie. Since it is said that love is great, love can break down all the barriers in front of us, and we are willing to be enemies with the whole world for love, then why did you gradually leave each other in the slow wastage, and finally became strangers? Let me answer this question for you, it is reality, because no matter how great love is, it will eventually be more likely to lose to reality. This is our life, when we know exactly what we want, The reality is changing you little by little. I tell you, you can't make such a choice. We may struggle with reality again and again, but we have developed the choice of ignoring what we want, which is why we gradually answer Nothing is the reason we want such a simple question ourselves.
Life tells us that what we love is a fool, and because he is an excuse, we can comfort ourselves and say that our choice is the most correct, and we can bury those memories when they come suddenly. In our hearts, this is the biggest difference between reality and this movie, and why I said at the beginning that I was hesitant in recommending and recommending this movie. But in the end, I still chose to recommend it, because I still want to ask myself once, what do you want? The answer is this kind of love, I am still willing to believe that love is great, it can defeat everything, it cannot be stopped when it comes, and it will overcome reality.
It is a beautiful story. In the end, when the lovers left hand in hand, the face change was unforgettable. It entrusted my wish that one day, let love conquer all, and the one you love, Holding hands together to the old pearl yellow, to the end of the world, until we leave with a smile. This is what I want, it has nothing to do with reality, it has nothing to do with everyday life, it has nothing to do with whether he is really stupid, it has nothing to do with him being what I want.
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