How to choose, love or stability?

Clarissa 2022-04-22 07:01:02

Well, I just like to watch love movies [Wang Chai].

This film attempts to discuss two choices about marriage, one is love but may be poor; the other is "right match", a guaranteed and stable union, the guide given by the film is to choose true love, and what does it show at the same time is true love. The film is very realistic and closely integrated, with high intentions. The lines and the values ​​conveyed are very positive. Personally, I think the overall is very good.

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1) People tend to be attracted to people who are different from themselves, and this attraction is essentially because the other person has an "ideal self";

2) In contrast, Alie is the one who knows very little about herself and lacks opinions about her own life, while Noah is the one who helps her to really figure out what she wants. When they quarreled the most, Noah once again Say "What do you want?" over and over;

3) Although Noah is just an ordinary worker, he knows very well what he likes and wants, likes poetry, knows romance, he is a person who emits a soft light from the bottom of his heart, Alie is also beautiful, but some of it is money The result of the pile up and not her own;

4) The lines in the second half of the film are very touching, not only romantic, but make me feel that the three views are very positive and powerful;

5) A life that goes against your true wishes will not be happy. (Chicken Soup Warning) You must find someone you love wholeheartedly and the other party loves you as well;

6) The plot design of Alzheimer's disease is very good, it reminds me of the song "young and beautiful", I forget everything when I am old, and the other party still treats each other gently and romantically day after day, loving each other, it is true love (There are also such stories in real life;

7) One question that still remains confusing is that the greatest thing in life is to love another person with all your heart, is such a life worth it? Including those years when Noah waited for Alie, decadent and heartbroken?

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The Notebook quotes

  • Young Noah: It's not about following your heart and it's not about keeping your promises. It's about security.

    Young Allie: What's that supposed to mean?

    Young Noah: [yelling] Money. He's got a lot of money!

    Young Allie: You smug bastard. I hate you for saying that.

    Young Noah: You're bored Allie. You're bored and you know it. You wouldn't be here if there wasn't something missing.

    Young Allie: You arrogant son of a bitch.

    Young Noah: Would you just stay with me?

    Young Allie: Stay with you? What for? Look at us, we're already fightin'

    Young Noah: Well that's what we do, we fight... You tell me when I am being an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you are a pain in the ass. Which you are, 99% of the time. I'm not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have like a 2 second rebound rate, then you're back doing the next pain-in-the-ass thing.

    Young Allie: So what?

    Young Noah: So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day. Will you do something for me, please? Just picture your life for me? 30 years from now, 40 years from now? What's it look like? If it's with him, go. Go! I lost you once, I think I can do it again. If I thought that's what you really wanted. But don't you take the easy way out.

    Young Allie: What easy way? There is no easy way, no matter what I do, somebody gets hurt.

    Young Noah: Would you stop thinking about what everyone wants? Stop thinking about what I want, what he wants, what your parents want. What do YOU want? What do you WANT?

    Young Allie: It's not that simple.

    Young Noah: What... do... you... want? God damn it what do you want?

    Young Allie: I have to go now.

  • Young Noah: If you're a bird I'm a bird.