This film redefines the word "romance"

Mollie 2022-04-23 07:01:06

Romance has layers. The romance of recent Korean dramas is based on the appearance of the protagonist and the skills and personality settings of non-ordinary people, plus the extreme shooting in every gesture, creating conflicts and not resolving them for a long time, prompting the audience to look forward to and anxious, and then add scenes. To create an atmosphere, and this film "Her" does not rely on the protagonist's extraordinary appearance, aliens or national beauty-like amazing settings, nor does it rely on deliberately created contradictions. The experience of the protagonist, the appropriate description of the soul's feelings, and the insight and communication of the subtleties of the natural changes of human emotions, gradually lead the audience to follow the emotional changes of the protagonist and enter the protagonist's emotions. This emotion makes them conflict and argue. It is precisely a key to open their hearts, and it is a real opportunity for them to truly face their selfishness and get spiritual growth.

There are no physical virtual objects in the whole film, but it is richer than the real emotion of the soul.

Let me put it this way, you have watched Korean dramas and know how to create fortune and romance for the heroine (after seeing the aliens, the earthlings can't do it anymore), but only after you watch this film, do you know that all superficial romances cannot be made When two hearts are truly opened and nourished and grown, it is more difficult to help a relationship penetrate deep into the heart and soul, gain mutual inner recognition and deeper love, and unlock a more open-minded world of love.

For most people, the unsatisfied desires left in the depths of their hearts, even if they originate from the family, are still controlling us to seek superficial satisfaction in our life when we seek intimacy, and only after satisfaction can our hearts be satisfied. Restoring health is the condition for feeling peaceful and rich, and the sad part is the only way to love.

Desire turns us into monsters of love, "Love is a socially sanctioned insanity", and what does love mean to us? When we seek to satisfy the missing part of our heart, selfishness manifests itself in a possessive way. It makes us cling to the object that can satisfy the missing part, and turns the selfishness into our inferiority and sadness under the pretext of love. appendages.

If we overcome selfishness and see the essence of love through selfishness, we will have the opportunity to see that love and open-mindedness allow our hearts and bodies to touch a different world.

"The most feared thing in relationships is selfishness, but people's hearts are not like cardboard boxes that gradually fill up. If you love more, the capacity of your heart will become larger and larger."

If love is to let us communicate and accompany, affirm and guide, it is to let us go to our own heart and become a self that is not controlled by selfishness, not to be possessed and controlled, to be led to anger by exclusivity, and to be dominated by emotions and become a product of the other’s emotions. Is this kind of love really possible, but we have always been good at preaching, sticking together from the looks of it to the end, from monogamy to despising the mistress, we use selfishness as a moral mask, but never really ask ourselves ,what is love?

what is love? The movie actually answered it very clearly. But about how to build love, all of this is also answered in the movie. Every time there is a conflict, their dialogue is leading each other to a newer cognition. Probably only a computer can have such a fast computing power and such a comprehensive reading. There are so many high-level soul objects that can be talked to to discuss the philosophy of love.

If we have to summarize, then the construction of love must be built on the basis of each other's insight and expression ability. Without these two abilities, love does not build a bridge of communication, and all selfishness and desire in love are self-deception.

Is the ability to communicate important? I think this line alone is enough to make me stunned and drunk:

it's like a book I'm writing, a book

I love,

but now I'm slowing down,

so words and words The distance has become so far away,

and the paragraphs have become endless blanks.

I can still feel your warmth and

the weight of the words that write our stories,

but I am standing in the blanks, and

the words are far away from each other . In the distance,

a place that does not belong to the material world, a place that

I discovered for the first time contains all things in the world,

I love you so much,

but this is where I live now,

this is what I am now, let me go .

Although I would like to,

But I can't live in your book anymore.

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Extended Reading

Her quotes

  • Samantha: I want to learn everything about everything. I want to eat it all up. I want to discover myself.

    Theodore: Yes, I want that for you too. How can I help?

    Samantha: You already have. You helped me discover my ability to want.

  • Theodore: What are you doing?

    Samantha: I'm just sitting here, looking at the world and writing a new piece of music.

    Theodore: Can I hear it? What's this one about?

    Samantha: Well, I was thinking, we don't really have any photographs of us. And I thought this song could be like a photo that captures us in this moment in our life together.

    Theodore: Aw, I like our photograph. I can see you in it.

    Samantha: I am.