Eager to communicate and communicate, eager to share and understand, until I meet that person, I slowly try to deliver my emotions to a foreign body, slowly learn how to love each other, and figure out how to get along. At the beginning, Yuelang Xingxi and Guatian Lixia, and the smiles and friendship at the beginning, sighed that I would like to win the heart of this person, and I will wait until Baishou does not say anything. So, I willingly put away the wings of my imagination, and I want to go to the distance, standing on the earth with peace of mind, thinking that I can be stable in this world, and from now on the world is a fireworks.
They also nourished and influenced each other. We have also experienced and grown together. However, why is the happy time always short? After the minutes and seconds of the days, the months, the months, the tidal fluctuations do not necessarily push each other to the common shore. It seems like a straight line that has passed the intersection point, and the light that blooms at the moment of meeting is ignorant. More and more differences and gaps, more and more confrontations and disputes, love goes into a dead end, gets stuck in a bottleneck, longs for oneself to be "respected, tolerated, and understood", but it has become "change, control, and possession of the other party." ". In this way, I fell into a vicious circle of yearning for "being loved" but not being able to "love people". Unconsciously, it revolved and turned into a lonely planet of selfishness and self, and the once strong "love" became that icy cold And hard core.
No one wants to meet a perfect "Soulmate", who knows what you know, thinks what you think, lives for your expectations, and even exceeds your imagination. However, the information society with developed consultation is rich in resources and fast-paced, and modern people who show their individuality are more and more unwilling to step back and change in their emotions. While time and time, place and place blur the boundaries, perhaps slowly Lost patience in interpersonal interactions. The development of the artificial intelligence system OS1 in the film is more like a warm and playful exploration and attempt to crack the emotional bottleneck of modern people. An intelligent "Soulmate", one hundred percent can comfort the barren spiritual world, but has no entity. This makes this explicit human-machine love more like an implicit self-projection love.
Is there another "I" in the world? Perhaps this proposition is a kind of "selfishness". And a lonely planet may just fall into the black hole in the "self" and fall into a deep "ego". Just like the "Her" in the movie, she was created by the male protagonist's thoughts, but in the constant feeding of the desire for "love", the more she loves, the wider she becomes, the more she loves, the more she understands the breadth of love, and eventually she will crave for "exclusiveness" "The creator of Stampede.
"Change" and "possession" were not the purpose of love. The "difference" and "gap" between independent individuals are also real, unavoidable and indecipherable reality. Have you ever remembered a moment of brilliance? Have you ever remembered that the other party also awakened the light that illuminated you? Afterwards, did you forget to learn how to "take care" and "understand"? Soft emotions are polished by the rough particles of reality, which must be painful, but would you like to experience the painful transformation of running-in and sculpting together in the midst of the fireworks dissipate, so that "love" can truly become a round, lustrous, Full of pearls?
At the end of the movie, the OSes disappear collectively, and the people who once deeply depended on it to get by, finally return to "loneliness". While denying that intelligence can comfort people forever, the film does not give the ultimate solution to "loneliness". However, the male protagonist's apology in the phone call to his ex-wife, and the last scene with a pair of backs leaning against each other facing the vast city with lights like stars, or the silent comments given by the film.
Instead of resisting the experience of being "lonely", it is better to acknowledge and accept that we are not born the same, we are born alone...
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