The following are my observations and thoughts on this film.
1. A lack of social activities and a mother who is demanding and bordering on paranoid obsession.
Human growth is divided into intellectual growth and social growth. When we are young, our parents will emphasize intellectual growth, enlightenment and development, because growth is an irreversible process, the key to Once the growth period is missed, the basic learning ability degenerates with age. As for the formation of personality, because it cannot be measured or seen in the short term, if nothing else, it is through the personality of parents, classmates and teachers, friends, relatives and elders, neighbors, and books. , TV dramas and other multiple influences gradually formed, so some parents will deliberately cultivate, while some parents will let the flow. In principle, as long as the parents have normal characters and do not have pathological characters, there will be no serious problems with the children's characters, and the characters formed by the children in the early stage are powerless by themselves. If there is no conscious change, it will be difficult to change. The so-called "the country is easy to change, but the nature is hard to change" is the truth.
But there is a situation that is very disadvantageous for young children's character growth-that is, an extremely lack of interpersonal social circle + harsh and paranoid single mother. The role played by the father and mother in the family is actually for balance. Even if the mother is strong, it does not matter. The father's tolerance and peace also play an important role in the stability of the family. But if there is only a mother at home and no girls of the same age in external social circles, then the object of a boy's primitive sexual drive at age 4-5 may be retained until puberty, that is, his mother, the only woman in his life.
2. Why does the male protagonist have an Oedipus complex?
I have never understood why the male protagonist has an Oedipus complex. Figured it out now. Because first of all, if it is not for the Oedipus complex, after the male protagonist knows that his mother has a boyfriend, he can make girlfriends of the same age or even older girls by himself, as long as he is not a mother. Secondly, after the male protagonist poisoned his mother and his mother's lover, he stole the mother's body from the coffin, and then took care of it, treasured it, cherished it, and treated the body like his lover. When the female protagonist who stole money and ran away showed the slightest dissatisfaction with the male protagonist's mother, the male protagonist showed anger and unacceptability.
So if the male protagonist and his mother have a relatively normal social life, why does the male protagonist's Oedipus complex arise?
First of all, because the father of the male protagonist passed away very early, the mother brought up the male protagonist very hard. The male protagonist's kind nature sees the hard work of the mother, no matter how unreasonable and unreasonable the mother sometimes does not take care of him, He believes that his mother loves him and loves him the most, and this idea is likely to be instilled by his mother, perhaps the original intention is to cultivate the character of gratitude of the male protagonist.
Secondly, due to the lack of normal social skills, maybe the male protagonist has tried to meet women of the same age or outside as friends or even girlfriends, but the likely result is rejection or even hurt, so he believes that his mother loves him the most. woman. And his mother was single and depressed for a long time, which may also make the male protagonist want to be the man who loves him that his mother hopes to have. In the end, the morbid change in the mother-child relationship may be the empathy that arises from the desire of the mother and the child for love, but the desire is depressed.
Then, a man appeared out of nowhere. He satisfies his mother's desire to be with his mother. No matter whether the mother and the man truly love him or not, the male protagonist feels abandoned. He does not understand what his mother wants, and he cannot satisfy and give. He and his mother formed a perverted balance. At home, the male protagonist regarded himself as a father and a son. Mother is not only his only woman, but the whole of his world. Those who are socially deficient are always self-inflicted, not that they are invincible, but that they have nowhere to learn from other people's thinking and the ability to get along with others due to long-term self-existence. The male protagonist thinks that the man has robbed his mother and everything in his world. He even forgot that the mother is happy at this time, the mother gets what she wants, and the mother's happiness can make the family gradually healthy. stand up.
3. Do multiple personalities have anything to do with our personalities? Why am I not multiple personalities?
There has always been a doubt that each of us has more or less the shadow of our mother's personality, why haven't we become multiple personalities?
There is a key word in abnormal personality: Conflict, that is to say, under normal circumstances, whether mother or father, their personalities are integrated into our personalities, integrated into one, regardless of each other, But when a part of memory or personality is too painful, unbearable, and dirty to be digested and forgotten, the ego, the EGO, will have a protective mechanism to protect part of the personality and personality. For example, most of the time, the personality does not remember the part that has experienced the conflict, so it is not too painful. But this part of the power of conflict and pain always needs to have a channel. After all, it is in the body, and some people will reflect on the body. , when a person appears in that personality body, the ontology is protected without consciousness, and the split personality body may be filled with some negative emotions, such as extreme anger, extreme sadness, and extreme fear. I think the split personality should also be unstable at the beginning, but due to the intense conflict, multiple personalities appear more and more, so a stable multiple personality is formed.
Conclusion:
Maybe from the moment this boy was born, his life would be a tragedy.
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