talk about Matthew and Lily:
When the two planned to have a lifelong relationship, Lily was taken by Matthew. The family was frightened, and the attitude was like a little girl from Shanghai seeing her husband's family in a small northeastern town. I felt that the family concept of the Matthew family was very similar to that of the elders in our traditional large family of several generations in the northeast. (But now we Northeastern men are not so macho.) Matthew and Lily also struggled to return to my extended family, or start a new small family with a lover. I think this is also a serious problem that today's young people have a hard time facing after a vigorous romance.
Of course, we Lily also suffered from the troubles from the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
There is also Robin:
The biggest shadow that her childhood brought to Robin is her patriarchal father. I believe Robin's father still loves Robin, but his old man, like thousands of fathers in China, cannot accept having no children. I think Robin's pain is also the pain of many Chinese girls.
Finally, Barney:
First of all, I have to say that American girls are so deceitful. If they were in China, Barney would have been beaten.
Now there are too many boys who say that girls are useless, as if girls are the most realistic and snobbish animals. In fact, they were like Barney. After being deeply hurt by the girl they loved the most, they no longer dared to love someone with their heart and could only use their lower body.
When Barney fell in love with Robin, facing his sweetheart, he had long forgotten what to do to carry the love to the end.
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