How much courage does it take to embrace a life with a known ending

Dayne 2022-04-21 09:01:10

Pain is a derivative of love, and I don't know how to express my love for this movie that left me crying alone in the theater after the end.

At first, I watched "Arrival" with the mentality of treating science fiction films. The rational thinking area of ​​the brain was excited, chewing on every clue that might solve the puzzle, and anticipation mixed with a little bit of fear, calm and suspicious like the heroine.

In the end, when the heroine hugged the dumbfounded physicist and said in a slightly trembling voice, "I almost forgot the feeling of being hugged by you", all the pre-set rationality collapsed and the tears couldn't stop flowing down, hidden in the coat of science fiction. The emotional card played is so powerful.

So far, I have forgotten all the mysteries about aliens, and all I think about over and over are the fragments that flashed back in the heroine's mind, which are connected into a clear time line. When I was a child, I also fantasized about having the super ability to predict the future, but I never thought about whether there is flexibility and perseverance that can carry this ability. The uncertain future is worry and expectation, and the certain future is amplified despair and force majeure.

The most classic sentence in "Forrest Gump", "Life is like a box of chocolate candies, you never know what the next one will taste like". But if you accidentally open the lid of the box and find everything you have longed for, only Huanglian and arsenic are left after taking all the outside row, will you collapse and cry, or hold back the tears and continue to smile and swallow?

Of all the femininity I admire, the one that hurts me the most is the word "forbearance". Like Miyaji who made a scorpion. Like Nie Yinniang who said nothing.

You know everything.

You know you have the key to the puzzle, and you know the key will bring you the halo of glory for a lifetime.

You know that you rely on your affectionate lover in front of you and become a deserter in the hardships of the future.

You know that the angel in your life will one day suffer from an incurable disease, and there is nothing you can do about it.

You know that short-lived sweetness is nothing but icing, which in the end will be exchanged for bitterness and heartbreak.

I ask you, do you have the courage?

However, you still hugged the person in front of you as if nothing had happened.

Like nothing will happen.

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Extended Reading
  • Herbert 2021-10-20 18:58:35

    Hannah, did you know that the tap water in Shanghai comes from the sea.

  • Archibald 2022-04-24 07:01:02

    The appearance of the spaceship is the apostle of "Neon Genesis Evangelion", the atmosphere inside is that of "Fog Lands", and the alien shape is basically the aliens Kang and Kodos of "The Simpsons". The biggest question is why not Hawking and Noam Chomsky. The bigger question is that from a linguistic point of view, it is far-fetched that language can affect thinking, not to mention that to achieve earth-shaking changes, it can only be said that it is very sci-fi but not scientific.

Arrival quotes

  • Ian Donnelly: [narrating] Why did they park where they did? The world's most decorated experts can't crack that one. The most plausible theory is that they chose places on earth with the lowest incidence of lightning strikes. But there are exceptions. The next most plausible theory is that Sheena Easton had a hit song at each of these sites in 1980. So, we just don't know.

  • Ian Donnelly: As I watch you steer us around these communication traps that I didn't even know existed, it's like, "what?" I guess that's why I'm single.

    Louise Banks: Trust me, you can understand communication and still end up single.