Rou Hu, who is less than four years old, often shouts that he is afraid of monsters. Even if she is at home with her, she always has to stay in the same area as you and see the adults to be relieved. The sound of someone walking by the door, there is an abnormal sound from the other side of the wall. The voice, she suddenly became vigilant, completely different from the time when she was not afraid of the dark when she was two or three years old.
Perhaps it is the periodical characteristics of age, one of the reasons why reading also transitions from fiction to nonfiction, helping them distinguish between fiction and nonfiction. After reading the picture book of Haruo Mikami, he asked me if there were monsters watching her by the window when I was sleeping. Ultraman listened to her a lot in kindergarten and always asked, "Mom, are there any monsters? Will the monsters catch me?"
Fighting or thrilling scenes, suspenseful soundtracks, she was so afraid that she covered her eyes with her hands, and watched a documentary to confirm with you again and again that the dinosaurs are extinct, right? Those bad guys won't come out of the TV, Mum, you'd better turn off the TV. We always like to frighten children, underestimate their fears, or define them by timidity, but what we think is that the needle is just like a mosquito stinging on the arm, but in their minds it is as thick as a tree smash down.
I was so annoyed by her questions, and at one point felt that her suspicions were not unreasonable, whether the monsters that humans feared would show up, and whether the dinosaurs would appear again (this is also what she proposed after talking about the extinction of the dinosaurs with meat nonsense). Worrying about TT)...we are just successfully brainwashed by materialism, barely outwitting our fears with our invisible, non-existent reason.
What I believe in is to believe that God is blessed without seeing it. From this angle, if you think about it seriously, it would be strange to be cautious. Therefore, adults seem to be able to distinguish between true and false, because they have already experienced a part of reality, or it is more convenient to live in the part that is recognized as true, while children are still in the process of chaos and unknown . If you are in a hurry to solve her fears, tell her that there are no monsters, which is really perfunctory, or tell her that the horror in the movie is fake, but the cruelty of life and the sinister human heart are obviously more real than the movie.
So I recently saw a list of movies to watch with my baby, and I chose this one. After reading it, the symptoms of the fear of monsters are indeed better, but it is not the right medicine to defeat the monster, but the baby has found the most powerful boss among the monsters - the fur monster, and this fur monster especially likes children, and also rescued the child Abu back to the human world. Hahahaha, Disney's trick, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhht a fairy tale like this to answer it.
When kids scream at monsters, Monster Power can convert those fearful energy harvesting into the electricity they can operate. But when Abu ignorant and fearless first appeared in the monster world, they sounded the alarm everywhere in a panic. I really like the setting of this idea. Indeed, fear has great power. When people express fear in their hearts, the evil world has more power. But when you are no longer afraid, they are dispersed with the wind.
It turns out that this is the misunderstanding we fell into when explaining to the child at the beginning. Even if you lead her to every corner of the house so that she can't point out a monster, it still can't solve her heart knot. Because the monster can be the incarnation of any fear in our heart, or it can be the fear itself. The objects of fear can be judged as false one by one, but the fear itself is so real that it can be derived into many other manifestations.
"Since ancient times, children all over the world have known that monsters are hiding in their cabinets. But what they don't know is that these monsters are not always so scary." Every child has a monster in his heart, don't rush To suppress it, block it, if you are facing the enemy and want to avoid it, when you probe into it like Abu, maybe the monster will flee, it will not have any power over you, and it can even become Where is your special partner?
"Mom, can you buy me a fur monster so he can protect me."
"Okay, then let's choose."
"Mom, can you buy a real fur monster instead of a doll..."
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