I believe that all people are crazy when faced with love. If they are not crazy enough, it must be because of not enough love. But once a person falls in love, it is easy to become blind. Just like Amy and Nick in the film, in order to make the other party like them, they don't hesitate to put on a mask for themselves, a mask that the other party loves. In fact, Amy and Nick may really be a natural couple, because they understand each other, know each other's likes and ideas, and try to play the role that each other loves. Maybe all of this seems so perfect. But when the two entered the palace of marriage, everything slowly changed. There will always be a day when the mask is tiring, and the actors will also get bored with the role. When one of the two parties is slack in the relationship between the two parties, this delicate balance can easily be broken, and what follows is unimaginable. disaster.
It is said that "marriage is the grave of love", this sentence may not be so alarmist. In the face of love, individuals can say that they don't have to take too much responsibility and don't have too much pressure, because even if the love breaks down, it's just a breakup at most, and two people still have the opportunity to pursue new love. But after entering into marriage from love, the two will take on the responsibility of the family behind them, and bear the constant attention from relatives and friends. As said in the film, if you want to test whether the relationship between the two people in the marriage is unbreakable, it only needs to make the two people lose their jobs and bear huge financial pressure. It is conceivable that perhaps a marriage is not as indestructible as we think. It may be as fragile as a fuse, and a strong blow of electric current is enough to make it collapse.
After watching this film, I feel that a good marriage is really not easy compared to love. In the ordinary life, in the daily life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, love will eventually be worn away by life and become lost in passion. After that, how to maintain a good marriage may be a question that everyone needs to think about before getting married. I really like the saying "Marriage is about compromising with each other, working hard, then working harder, communicating and compromising, and then doing another round of management". Marriage cannot be slack. Compared with pure love, it requires more from both parties. understanding and communication. Many people think that the birth of a child can better maintain the marriage relationship, maybe it may have a certain effect, maybe it is just our wishful thinking. In this era of rising divorce rates, how to handle the marriage relationship has really become a difficult problem of the times.
Suddenly I remembered an article I read a few days ago. There was a sentence in it: Maybe a good marriage relationship or love is to make each other better people. At first, when I saw this sentence, I thought it made sense, but after watching this film, I think it is still open to question. In the film, Amy and Nick's relationship may be in a state of mutual making each other the perfect partner in their minds, but the problem it brings is that for this relationship, the two don't hesitate to wear masks, even to form a state of control over each other. Maybe the problem in the film is just an example, but it is very thought-provoking. After all, compared to reality, marriage cannot be perfect all the time, there will always be cracks, and then someone needs to be repaired. Knowing that there are cracks, but letting them go, the results are self-evident. Therefore, maintaining a good marriage is really not that easy. In addition to the efforts of both parties regardless of the cost, it also requires the careful care of the two.
Finally, I sincerely wish all lovers in the world can be married, and love and marriage can last forever. Falling in love is not easy, just do it and cherish it!
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