When you first met, be beautiful, gentle, charming, humorous, just the right amount of debauchery, and it would be best if there were no financial problems. Then what? After getting married, you should not control your husband so much, and you should be able to go through all kinds of difficulties together with your husband. If your husband is unable to work and spend his own money, you should also respect your husband. If there is any problem with your husband’s family, you should treat him as yourself. The problem is, even if the husband does not understand his preferences, he has to give up all of himself to show the obedience that I am very willing to change for you. And then, if your husband cheats, you should first start to reflect on yourself, whether I am not doing well enough, whether there is something wrong with me, you must give your husband space, let him feel that he is important, and finally get lost. , always virtuous with a smile, and then accept all kinds of compliments from everyone.
If the heroine in the film is like this, will it be more in line with men's realistic expectations for marriage? However, honey, marriage is more cruel than you think. And a good wife can't be defined in this way at all.
In my opinion, the heroine in the movie is simply a model of a good helper. First of all, she married the hero with a lot of money, indicating that she did not care about the material conditions of the hero, but his plasticity. It's all about finding the perfect husband, what's wrong with that? Isn't every woman in a man with plasticity? In this world, how can someone be born in line with all your imagination of your husband? Even if everything is good when it comes to love, marriage is another matter. And those men who are clamoring that she just wants to control him by marrying him, you are enough, you dare to say, when you marry a wife, don't you want to find a plastic wife? Who is born to sweep, cook and clean, and who is born to be pregnant for ten months? Since you have chosen marriage, you must accept the fact that each other needs to change each other, so what are you complaining about, the hero? You have enough patience to play a perfect man when you are in love, but after marriage you start to feel that this is really too restrictive to your nature, so you should not marry a woman who demands perfection as a wife in the first place, greedy Her beauty, her wealth, but she doesn't want to play her role well, how can there be such a cheap thing in the world?
Secondly, the heroine is not a selfish person. A selfish person will follow her impoverished husband away from the prosperous city to take care of his sick mother, and get along with his mother very well? She paid, whether it was true or false, or at least actual actions, which proved that she paid enough attention to this marriage. To put it another way, the male protagonist is dissatisfied with her returning the credit fund to her parents, but takes her home to help him take care of his seriously ill mother as a matter of course. . Unfamiliar, no friends, no job, only the hero's mother who is seriously ill, the hero's sister who doesn't like her, the man's circle of friends who can't fit in, the hero finally found another post-90s generation, and the heroine certainly has Enough reason for anger to orchestrate everything. She was really desperate. When she started, she really just wanted to die together. He gave everything, and in return was the man's indifference and confusion. He lived with her for 5 years, but he didn't know everything about her. The man didn't stop to guess about her favorite dessert in the end. The scary thing is that the man's family thinks that the man doesn't need to bother so much, and the man thinks that she has loved him and he has loved her too. If marriage is destined to be wiped out, then everyone should at least be evenly matched with each other. It's not that he doesn't have the ability to torture, he just doesn't care about her, so it makes sense that she finally decides to play a game with him.
No matter how aggrieved the male protagonist feels, he is actually not innocent. In the end, the female protagonist successfully resolved the crisis of public opinion, and incidentally solved the economic problem, and successfully used the child to tie the man firmly to herself. Her neuroticism is not The fuse of the crime, the man's laziness and selfishness is the only thing to blame, he underestimated her IQ and overestimated his own control.
In fact, the male protagonist's psychological construction is quite strong. In the end, he can be treated like that with human flesh. Once again, he sighs that the female protagonist's vision is really good. The two are simply made in heaven. The outside is amazing, you need to be cautious when entering the city, the more you think about it, the more sighed it is~
In fact, only herself knows whether marriage is suitable or not. The heroine just doesn't want to entertain the public and is a model couple on the surface. She just wants to please herself, so she chose Accomplice, her life is ruined, he doesn't want to live well, but that's all~
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