Everyone felt that Amy came home at last, with Nick firmly tied to his side, Nick is the most miserable man in the world. But I think it's just the opposite. Amy is the most pitiful. This was the last thing she wanted to do before. She didn't want to have children, but in the end she even had to pick up her husband's sperm bank that was thrown in the trash. Get pregnant this way. She was reluctant to face her husband with a hypocritical mask before, hoping that there would be no deception in her marriage, but in the end her marriage was full of deception. She wants to get rid of the control of her parents' media, but in the end she can only live in the illusion of the media. She had always loved her husband, who sat by her window with fear in his eyes.
Amy is an authentic Bai Fumei, not only Bai Fumei, but also smart, reasonable, fun, and enthusiastic. When nick is frustrated, he supports him and helps him, and returns all the money from his foundation to his parents. When he died, he took care of Nick's mother (this is from Nick himself, Amy has a good relationship with Nick's mother), moved to the country with Nick, and silently endured his dissatisfaction with Nick. Her calmness is shocking, and her open-mindedness is admirable. It is true that she does not want children, but I think this idea is very common for women. After all, children are not so easy to raise and take up a lot of time, energy and attention, not to mention the pain of childbirth. And Amy is also too confident in her love. She really loves his husband too much, and there is no room for a third person.
Many people think that Amy came up with this series of revenge plans because Nick had a mistress. It's true that Nick's having a mistress is the trigger, but how many people can feel Amy's desperation and helplessness. When they moved to the country, Amy was isolated and helpless. In the whole family, even in the village, Amy was a one The identity of an outsider exists. This is Nick's family. Nick is from the same village. Amy has no friends of her own. The only friend she can make is a pregnant woman with a relatively mediocre IQ. amy is obviously a person who is more adapted to city life, she is not adapted to country life. She's too delicate, she's too demanding, she needs to be in control. But this rural atmosphere is obviously out of tune. A magazine columnist like Nick, when in the big city is dressed in heroic clothes and leather shoes, in the country with a big belly, casually wearing a shirt, sloppy. And Amy is always in the image of a lady, she is wild but not rude. This is Amy's sadness, and what she can sustain is probably only her husband's love, but when all this collapsed, she chose revenge.
I think she chose such extreme revenge because it is very easy for a man to destroy a woman, but how difficult it is for a woman to destroy a man. Men can coerce women effortlessly, while women destroy men, they can only start from the man's reputation and social status. This requires not only physical and mental effort but also endurance. Look at how long Amy has planned, how meticulous, from her husband. Every reaction from the media, no feedback from the media, no details. It must have been a very long process from making friends with neighbors. This is a crime with high IQ. The sad thing is that during this long process, the husband still unknowingly didn't care about his wife's feelings at all, and he didn't care about his wife's thoughts. In the end, I think that the husband was to blame himself. And Amy had to give her own blood. Amy is so pitiful. Although she framed her husband, she was still doing her best.
When I first started watching the movie, I felt that Nick was very pitiful, and was framed by his wife before he knew it, but when I saw Amy driving the car into the distance, I felt relieved, a feeling of liberation and help, I watched it before. The nick that arrives is chaotic, a walking dead who doesn't care about everything and has no breath of life. His every move has no purpose at all, just a reaction to the stress around him. Even if his wife is gone, he still uses a fixed pattern to deal with it. For him, finding a wife is a procedure, not something to be done. It is estimated that when he had sex with his wife, it was also this virtue, and it was very uncomfortable just to make people look at it.
At this time, Amy's vitality is proud, purposeful, and powerful. But the only disappointment is that the purpose she wants to run towards is death. I was so incredulous at the time, why did Amy punish her husband like this, just to get her own death. What kind of despair this is, must die together. Fortunately, I can see that Amy's thoughts are changing. When seeing Amy put on casual clothes, put on glasses, and even disfigured. When talking about the difference between cool girl and gone girl, I think Amy is very cool and beautiful. Especially when it comes to cool girl, which is a male-shaped character, thinking of the images of these cool girls in film and television works that we see in our life, they are constantly brainwashing us. And girls actually demanded of themselves in this image, just to satisfy the pure fantasy of men. And men don't care about the youth and themselves that girls lose in the process.
Originally I thought this movie was complete, but it turned out to be David Fincher, and what happened next gave the brain a pound.
Just when Amy realized that her life wasn't all about her husband, and that Amy didn't have to choose suicide because of her husband's infidelity, just when she was about to go into incognito and start her new life, her new friend robbed her. In fact, I think it's just that woman, and Amy can handle it, but that woman has a male helper. This is a great shame. And Amy has no relatives around, no one can protect her.
In a state of helplessness, she asked for help from the rich man who had chased after her in high school. I thought it was rescue, but it turned out to be nothing more than going from one fire pit to another fire pit. The rich man seemed to have made her safe, but in fact he was imprisoning her and turning her into a sex slave and a plaything for him. Amy is so smart and discerning, her immediate obedience protects herself from more typhoid fever, and wins more time.
At this time, Amy is not only out of her husband's perspective, she must have realized a more cruel fact, that is, women are facing the fragility of society, she cannot survive alone in this world, she must rely on a man, even a bitch thief like a neighbor She also has to rely on a man to complete her robbery, but the control and play of the high school rich make her in turn discover the benefits of her husband. Even if the husband is not perfect, he can still be a good one to rely on. And Nick tried his best to maintain his image on TV, making Amy feel that he still had the possibility to go home.
Many people think that Amy's ruthless killing of the rich man is simply cold-blooded. I'm applauding, such a shameless rich man, it's a great pleasure to be killed. Although Amy went home and spent a lot of scheming, in front of the media, she also did a very fake job. But I think Amy really wants to reconcile with her husband.
Although his husband looked at her with a terrified expression and was reluctant to even touch her, even so, Amy was trying her best to buy time and her husband. Of course, because of media exposure, their previous financial crisis was swept away. Amy also put down her body and became pregnant for her husband.
It's hard to tell what happened after that, maybe Nick still couldn't hold his breath and finally took Amy to court and got rid of Amy's threat. In the end, the two found out that they were still each other's soul mates. The future is changing rapidly, and it is in the hands of the writers.
But from this adventure of amy, we can see the difficulty of women's cognition of social roles. When I was a child, Amy was regarded as a magical Amy by my parents, who was omnipotent. Just like most families now, rich and supportive daughters give them more care and encouragement. Since girls generally do well and meet expectations, they are given higher expectations. When a girl asks for such a cognition because of rebellion, it is nothing more than breaking away from her parents’ expectations, coming to her husband’s family, and changing her image to conform to the husband’s family’s cognition of his wife’s lover. Women's requirements are completely different. When they are girls, they require students with excellent grades. When they are lovers, they require wildness and fun. When they are wives, they require virtuousness and tolerance. And these kinds of cognitions are all attached to the patriarchal society, and single women are exploited by society, and they have no sense of security at all. The so-called shackles of marriage, the conflict between the sexes, is not a woman's natural pettiness or preoccupation, not based on a woman's personality, but an inevitable result.
Emma called on women to give men more space at the feminist conference. Why can't men give women more security?
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