Amy---- another self

Jennings 2022-04-19 09:01:10

When Amy said "this is marriage" I felt like the film was over. In fact, this marriage is also a microcosm of many families in life, and also a microcosm of his own marriage.
The relationship between myself and my husband was the same as that of Amy & Nick in the film. They cherished each other and cherished each other. He also gave up where he originally lived for her husband, and came to his city with her husband. Women in marriage are always the one who backs down. I always feel that I have given up a lot for my husband, and I have always felt that I am capable, talented, different, and can resolve any difficulties. As long as they have each other, they are the same as Amy. But seeing that in reality her husband is not what he expected, there will be a gap. He found that he paid less and less attention to himself, and would like to eat, drink and play with friends, and would not go home to accompany him. He is also not so motivated in his career, and sometimes he and his family are helping him. Gradually, I felt that I had changed from a reasonable and decent woman to a resentful woman. I feel that he ruined himself, and without him, I should be better now. I have thought countless times about leaving him completely, making him regret it for the rest of his life, and getting revenge on him, because he ruined me. I have imagined countless scenarios, how to leave him, how to leave him, how to make him regret, how to get revenge on him. A woman's imagination is so rich. But just one step closer, I didn't do that. But Amy in the movie did. It is sometimes difficult to agree on thinking and action. Because it takes a lot of courage and a price to leave someone.
The more you hate him, the more you love him. There is a fine line between love and hate. Another point is that he actually still loves such a man. When Amy heard Nick calling her home on TV, it was only a 1% possibility that she was still willing to go back to the man she once loved, and go back to him regardless. So she started deploying the next step, even killing people, and she blamed Nick for everything, and he forced everything. Even if Nick doesn't love himself anymore, he should keep him by his side, just keep someone by his side, because he is really afraid of being alone and helpless. So woman is still a very simple emotional animal. And Nick is also willing to return to such a woman, because a man is a face animal. Such an ending must be very painful for people, but they have to admit that this is marriage, and it is also the trouble that many families encounter in reality. So please, all husbands, please take good care of your other half, because no one in this world loves you more than your mother. I also ask all wives to be more considerate of their husbands, and don't complain when they encounter difficulties, this will only make the two of them go further and further.

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  • Samara 2022-03-26 09:01:01

    It is especially recommended for couples to watch it together. It is a good film to enhance the relationship and promote each other.

  • Kara 2022-03-23 09:01:09

    The requirements are based on suspense standards, and the last part is completely off-line, using black humor to make up for the far-fetched play; when it comes to fables, it is too straightforward. The price of cynicism is sacrificing the psychological space of the supporting role, but the sarcasm itself is very old-fashioned and superficial.

Gone Girl quotes

  • Ellen Abbott: I so appreciate you giving us this time, Nick.

    Nick Dunne: You went on national television and told people that I murdered my wife.

    Ellen Abbott: Well, I go where the story goes.

    Nick Dunne: You implied that I had carnal relations with my sister.

    Ellen Abbott: I didn't use the "I" word. I said you two were extremely close.

    Nick Dunne: You had a pile of nitwits diagnose me as a sociopath.

    Ellen Abbott: Icebreaker.

    Ellen Abbott: [shows him a robot cat toy] To go with your robot dog.

    Nick Dunne: I'll go find Amy.

  • Amy Dunne: [V.O] What scared me wasn't that he'd pushed me. What scared me was how much he wanted to hurt me more. What scared me was that I'd finally realized... I am frightened of my own husband.