Waiting for your lover, life is enough

Lia 2022-04-19 09:01:08

After careful calculation, I have been with my girlfriend for more than seven years. During the bumps and bumps, ups and downs, experienced a lot. He once made a promise to his girlfriend that he would take her on an adventure outside, but the ordinary life makes this grand goal stranded every time for various reasons.

My girlfriend has been in poor health in recent years. Last year's sudden deafness caused most of her hearing loss in her left ear, and this year she suffered from eye disease, and her left eye was deformed. I thought I had the strength to accept this fact and accompany her through this difficult time. I accidentally watched "Flying Home" today, but the most vulnerable part of my heart was inadvertently stirred up, and I felt extremely uncomfortable by myself.

When watching the little boy and girl in the film, they went from being ignorant children, to entering the palace of marriage, to gray hair, to the separation of life and death. This long life, I burst into tears in the screen switching within a few minutes. I owe too much to my girlfriend, and we are also imagining a better future together, but life has always made me inadvertently dull, and my passion has become numb over the years.

I suddenly felt that I was too afraid of losing my girlfriend deep in my heart. This feeling made me have the urge to run to my girlfriend and hug her tightly, and then I wanted to say in her ear, don't leave me, don't leave me, I will I will accompany you through the journey of my life, and I will spend my whole life guarding by your side.

Being so busy every day has made me forget to think about what it means to live together. In the days where I was the center, it was natural for my girlfriend to be nice to me, she would lose her temper at any time, use her cleverness to let her do this or that, and do whatever she likes, and she never cared about her feelings. When I look back on the years I have spent together, I realize that I have always been so bad.

As I approached my 30th birthday, I suddenly realized that life is not necessarily a grand event, but waiting by the side of my lover is a great harvest in life. To love with your heart, to care for with your heart, this is the biggest adventure that my lover and I will cherish for a lifetime.

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  • Police Officer Edith: [after Carl gets back from the courtroom, at night] Sorry, Mr. Fredricksen. You don't seem like a public menace to me. Take this.

    [she hands him a Shady Oaks Retirement Village brochure]

    Police Officer Edith: The guys from Shady Oaks will be by to pick you up in the morning, okay?

  • Newsreel Announcer: [after the National Explorer's Society accuses Muntz of fabricating the "Monster of Paradise Falls" skeleton] The organization strips Muntz of his membership.

    [a patch is ripped off Muntz's jacket]

    Newsreel Announcer: Humiliated, Muntz vows a return to Paradise Falls and promises to capture the beast alive!

    Charles Muntz: [speaking to a large audience outside in the newsreel] I promise to capture the beast alive, and I will not come back until I do!