It is also a movie about cheating, "Hopeful Man" makes people feel relaxed and happy throughout the whole process. Far from being as dark as Ye Nianchen's trilogy. I can still remember the depressing feeling of watching Ye Nianchen's trilogy when I was 24 years old, "Love is a blindfold. What you see may not be real, and you may not see the real one." - "Very Love" This line once made the "young me" panic.
Of course, both have common characteristics: the director is good at plot reversal, there is no "good person" in the whole play, everything is wrong!
I won't spoil any more stories. After watching the movie, I want to talk about cheating in marriage.
The reason why most people enter the "besieged city" of marriage is because of human desire for "intimacy". However, even if the person around you is your favorite, it is impossible for him to meet all your needs at any time (of course, no one can meet all of everyone's needs). When their needs are not met, rational, intelligent and lucky people may seek solutions in marriage, and frank communication, coupled with the efforts of both parties, will make the relationship between the two more intimate. But I think a lot of people will "cold" or seek solace outside.
"The emergence of a third party is the result, not the cause, of a marriage rift." This sentence is right, but the wrong thing is that if there is no third party, perhaps most people will tend to resolve inward or Cold process.
So what if you can't solve it inwardly? The correct path is actually quite clear: either endure or get out. Either endure until "the boat reaches the bridge head naturally straight" or become numb, or divorce happily. If this is the case, then the world will be at peace. But the problem is - "greed" - wanting to have both. The people around me are inseparable (whether because of the social influence of love children), but the missing piece in my heart needs extra-marital solace.
People often ask, are you willing to accept the derailment of the other person's heart or the derailment of your body?
Before marriage, everyone will say No way, and they will definitely make the other party go as far as possible. When they really walk into a besieged city, especially when they have children, more people choose to hold on to the ruthless - "It is better to be divorced than to rely on marriage."
My personal point of view is that it may be a little politically incorrect - all evils and lust are the first, in the body or not in the heart, in the world, there is no perfect person - if the other party is really just a temporary and faint dissociation of the mind, why should you care?
Love is a dynamic process, sometimes abundant and sometimes lacking. If you want to manage a decades-long intimate relationship, you need to truly understand and love each other, and you need both parties to have a correct understanding of human nature.
As for other situations other than this, it is "It depends", and the specific situation is analyzed in detail...
PS. Recommended reading: Liu Yu 's "On the Evolution Trend of the Marriage System" If Liu Yu's prediction will come true one day, then It will definitely be realized in Europe where the values are more diverse~
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