As a leftover man in the early 1980s, I am deeply unfortunate. Just because I used the label of the post-80s, I was misunderstood by the masses that the post-80s men were flamboyant, playful and ignorant, and getting married and divorced was like buying Chinese cabbage.
Thinking back to the time when we could read, our old solid wood was ridiculous and irritating, and we finally fell in love and held a small hand. We were afraid of being caught and watched by outsiders at home, and when we met the girl we liked, it was usually there. People who hide behind other people's backs don't dare to pass a note. In the past, they were afraid of being rejected by others. At that time, we could be stupid. We are not as precocious as today's children, and physiology teachers hardly teach us about hygiene. Calling us to be self-taught, in order to fully understand our exploration of female passwords, AV actresses have become our only teaching materials.
When we finally grew up and were qualified to have girlfriends, we found that almost all the girls of our generation have changed. Some have become mothers, and some are clamoring to be single, even if they are interested in falling in love. The girls are crying and shouting to find the post-70s. People often say that we don’t want to look for the post-80s boys. They are too naive. They say that they found themselves and us in the next 10 years from the divorce tide of the post-70s. , How does this man compare to a man?
Think about our men in the early 1980s being bored enough, let alone being bored. Recently, my brother and I have spent half a year on a blind date enough to write a novel. I have met them. I change a girlfriend every month, and there are also people who get to bed in a week. The update speed is beyond my own imagination. It’s like acting in a TV series. Don’t say that this kid is beautiful. In fact, I am really innocent. Let me tell you about my dating experience.
My first blind date was an 83-year-old girl introduced by a friend of my friend. She was good-looking. We met each other a few times and felt okay, so we cooked rice and cooked rice. , When it comes to marriage, the woman is unwilling to live and die. She is saying that I am too poor and afraid that I will endure hardships with me. Everyone can play seriously, but I will not say anything after listening to this. Goodbye.
After half a month, my colleague introduced me to a girlfriend of 1982. Because of the lessons learned from the previous 83, I was not very happy to meet her, but the girl took the initiative to contact me. The girls are all active, so I can’t be too passive, so I invited the girl to dinner. The girl is a good person and has a good personality. I was overjoyed and thought that my own business is now done. , I really liked that girl a bit, so we started to play house again, and I also met the girl's father, the girl's father was sick and hoped that she would get married soon, the girl thought that I was honest and willing to marry I dated, but after a week, the girl came to me with tears and said, I was so nice to her, she didn't want to hurt me, she still liked her ex-boyfriend, even if she married me, she was just because I treated her to her Well, I was stunned for a long time. I told the girl let's forget it. You don't like me. You only stay with me because you think I'm good. Breaking up with this girl made me depressed. It's wrong to be nice to people.
The third girl I met was in 1984. This girl is average but not bad. In addition, both parents knew me. I was thinking that it should be this time. What I didn’t expect was, I don’t know it was this girl. I'm too conservative or I'm too boring. We dated for a month and didn't even dare to touch other people. In the end, people said that I didn't understand the style. NND, this is too CNN, I respect her and I'm guilty.
The next fourth girl is a graduate student who is looking for a job after graduating this year. I helped her get in touch with her job. I didn’t expect that the eldest lady didn’t even say thank you. It seemed that I should take it for granted. Going to work in Beijing dumped me.
The fifth girl didn't say that she didn't meet, but she actually offended her because she said something wrong. She told my colleague that she felt that my character was wrong, and that I was so honest and was punished like this.
The sixth girl I met on QQ is a complete audition group, not to mention MM...
I guess everyone is depressing enough to see me on a blind date. Such an honest man like me ran to get married and went on a blind date. Also hurt by blind date, you may think that I spend, yes, it takes almost half a month to change a girlfriend, is it easy for me? I went to help others and didn't ask for a good word. Yes, I am a good person, but why can't I get retribution for my good person?
Girls of the same age as me are killed and they don't even look for me because I'm a child in their eyes, and girls younger than me think I'm too dull and incomprehensible, as an IT guy who deals with computers all day How much time and experience do you have to worry about, hey, when a man reaches a certain age and doesn’t get married, his colleagues, parents, siblings, all look at me like monsters, but is it easy for me, I still want to get married? But who to find a relationship, everyone said that the fate is undecided, I don't know when this fate will end.
Now single people like to play games. You play me, I play you. Everyone is playing. Even if they are tired of playing, they are unwilling to quit and live a stable life. After going through the blind date for half a year, I have come to understand a truth. When women say that men are unreliable, a few of them are looking for reliable men. They don’t like to talk with numbers. There aren't many numbers, so I'm doomed to be a leftover man. (Author: Sina netizen Hailing)
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