From love, you will be worried
.
If you are separated from the lover, you will have
no worries and no fear .
This is a wonderful sentence I read in a novel by Jin Yong. I like it when I recite it. It's amazing, I didn't deliberately remember it, but it was easy to memorize.
Of course, the love here is not only love for love, love for relatives, love for lovers, love for friends, and even love for pets and inanimate bodies, which probably refers to the love, appreciation, and compassion for all people and things. Positive feelings.
People become vulnerable because there are too many things to protect. We cherish our bodies, so we often feel fearful when we are in danger; we cherish our relatives and friends, so we feel worried and suspicious when they have a situation; we cherish life, so we feel anxious about animal cruelty anger. If we don't care about anything, we're probably almost invincible. I think that's what this poem wants to express.
But people always have something to protect. If there is no such thing, the four elements are all empty, and although there is no worry and fear, it has already left the realm of human beings.
"If You Are the One" is a good movie, although it is a bit confusing. Of course, there are very few good films that don't make people tangled, except probably for documentaries like "Planet Earth".
I didn't like Shu Qi very much before, probably because the look of her lips always reminded me of the Chinese teacher in elementary school who always punished me for copying texts. Copied until early morning.
But she is really beautiful in this film, and there is a very popular comment because this film touches on the love concept of Aries girls. Maybe Aries girls are really like this, just like the title of the novel. "Born with Love".
They are like sheep trudging on the grasslands, ignoring the plump water plants under their feet, ignoring the sturdy wolves in the distance, and running tirelessly just to find their own kind. From this point of view, the Aries girl is out of touch with me. On the one hand, it's because it's Libra opposite Aries; on the other hand, I don't think I'll ever fall in love with the same person as me. It seems to be a character of different opinions, but he has lost interest when he understands it too deeply. I am more interested in the different than the same, and the unknown is always higher than the known to me. I'd much rather share each other's worlds with others than merge two identical or roughly identical worlds together.
Relatively speaking, Ge You is not very good in this film. I don't know if it's because of prejudice or something, even though Qin Fen and Liang Xiaoxiao walked together at the end of the film, I still have doubts about their future. Many people I know, including me, no matter whether they have experienced it or not, they are sincere when talking about others: it is better to find someone who loves you than someone who loves you. But what I see is that most people with normal feelings are still only crazy for the people they love. For those who love themselves, there is nothing more than apology and sympathy. The so-called hope of harm, I think it is like this. If you are separated from the lover, you will have no worries and no fear. In the end, between Liang Xiaoxiao and Qin Fen, whether it is a two-way love, I am not sure. But at the end, Liang Xiaoxiao's bland and brilliant smile, if not in love, can only be despair.
Or is this a disapproval of the same kind? Saying this is a bit like putting gold on my face. In fact, I have nothing in common with Uncle Ge except that the appearance does not conform to the public's aesthetics. However, a stinky poor like Ge You might be the best result for us good men who have no money and no appearance. If you are lucky, you might find a flight attendant.
In addition to those hilarious lines, there is another sentence that impressed me in the film. After Liang Xiaoxiao jumped into the sea and was rescued, Qin Fen said the first sentence to her after waking up: You are so naughty.
Or be a man like his father who always waits with broad shoulders, warm palms and a smile. Maybe in the end, happiness will knock on the door. I am a little doubtful that this late-arriving happiness is not the one when I went out. I was also wondering if I could see you endure so much hurt and torture and still keep that calm and calm smile.
After all, it's just a New Year's Eve drama. Let us believe in the beauty of love and the fact that efforts will be rewarded in the end. In fact, I clearly know that I think most people should agree that Qin Fen's perseverance and Liang Xiaoxiao's final empathy have nothing to do with logic. It's a bit ironic to say that there are many movies with the same theme, and many actors with mediocre performances faithfully show the intention of the film, and the actors in this film interpret the roles well and full, but because of their authenticity, It ripped the story a little bit so that some people could see the parts that shouldn't be seen, the parts that were true to the plot but defied logic.
The title of the film is very interesting. If you are the one, it is a word that Qin Fen prepared for his partner when he was looking for marriage, but in this film, the best interpretation of the word "sincerity" is the male protagonist. The English name is also very interesting, IF YOU ARE THE ONE. If you are the one, the implication is that if it is not the one, you should give up as soon as possible, so as not to waste time and effort. But the problem for many people is that they don't know if they are the "one".
This is probably what the Buddhists call "obsession". There are always some things that we can't give up even if we know it's wrong. Buddhism teaches that the four elements are all empty, Taoism is too high to forget one's feelings, and Confucianism does not go beyond the norm. An idealized life is just that.
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