If You Are the One is a tragedy about "loneliness"

Kurt 2022-04-23 07:04:55

I like to keep thinking about it after watching a movie. Every time I reminisce, I can realize a different meaning.

Director Feng will not be so bored that it takes five minutes to just film a man crying. In the film, Ge You cried, his Japanese friend cried, and Fan Wei cried. Every man cried.

Before, in the middle, at the end of the movie. There have always been men's tears. Don't cry without film? Naturally because of what these men's tears can express.

In fact, what the movie wants to show is "loneliness".

In this era of fast food, we want to find the other half without spending a lot of energy. We think that everything is good for each other, and everything is accommodated to ourselves. Oneself is each other's everything.

"Modern people, there are so many secrets and stories hidden in our hearts, but we can't find anyone to share. We are tired of the process of getting to know each other and adapting to each other, and hope to find the other half of the circle that suits us in an efficient and fast way. " It was said in the

movie that after so many years, there were only a few friends, and they all went their separate ways.

Subtle, but very real. Ask ourselves, are you alone? Men represent a hard image. Men represent the image that can provide shelter to women. However, these men cried. Many viewers thought it was hypocritical for Ge You to cry in front of Shu Qi in the first half of the movie. I thought the tears were real. It's not so much repentance, but remorse. I regret not taking that opportunity to make myself not alone.

Men may be more afraid of loneliness than women. They can have fun with wine and talk about the general trend of the world. On the empty seaside, on the empty highway, when facing a woman whom they thought they would never meet again, they would show this kind of despair.

When people in big cities do bad things, they will come here to confess to the priest.

Today's people are under great pressure to survive, and they will hurt others for their own sake and for the sake of something that is readily available. Are they bad people? I have no idea. However, they are disturbed. And they can't find anyone to talk to. Nobody they feel they can trust.

There is always a terrifying distance between people. In faster-paced and denser cities, this distance increases. There is a crisis of trust between people.

I went to contact a friend whom I hadn't contacted for a long time. I told her bluntly that I wanted to talk to someone, so I thought of you. I told her that I was alone and going crazy and had to disturb her.

This film is about the picturesque scenery on the surface of society, everyone is full of energy and hard-working. This movie is about the hypocritical calculations behind the smile, where everyone is preoccupied but troubled by loneliness.

The ending is comical. However, the whole film is enveloped in a kind of sadness. This, determines that it is essentially a tragedy. For commercial reasons, it was packaged as a comedy.

Loneliness is the sharp blade that tortures us in the middle of the night. Pain, unable to break free. Waited, hopeless. What Feng Dao wanted to say was hidden in a deep place.

Once again, I thought of Usan singing an incomprehensible Japanese folk song, losing his voice in pain on the empty road.

What is he crying for. He cried is the loneliness of people, loneliness. He was not crying for himself, nor for his friend Ge You. What he was crying about was a profound loneliness in this world. This loneliness grows in the marrow and flows in the blood. Sings the melody of despair.

The camera opened, what a beautiful and pleasant pastoral scenery. No one to share, the more moving the scenery, the more desolate.

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