Heavy

Krista 2022-04-21 08:01:09

If it is described as "Dense" in English, it may be more appropriate to use "厚重" in Chinese. This is a heavy pain about memories and feelings. Although the plot is the pain that the two children suffered during the divorce of the writer's parents, it is also the emotional story of two writers or two sensitive literati. Perhaps the children of writers and writers are particularly sensitive to feelings. They are accustomed to ignoring and forgetting the feelings they don't like. Until a moment, they can no longer bear it, so they will be extremely sensitive to small things or become hysterical.
The plot of this film is adapted from the playwright and director's own childhood story, so it is quite delicate. Has been successfully abandoned, self-centered father. Wife who is tired of boring life, successful female writer. Adolescent Walt was deeply influenced by his father and was emotionally shaky. Young Frank fell into a hesitation about family and sex. There are a few episodes that I am particularly admired. The beautiful thing that Walt can recall when undergoing psychotherapy is that his mother relieved the stimulation he received in the Nature Museum, and his father did not appear in this memory at all. Father kept looking for parking spaces in the block, cursing other motorists, and showing his disappointment and resentment extremely well.
Not only is the plot exquisite, the performance is also very good. Especially for the two children, their sensitive and excessive reactions are very natural but very strong. Perhaps each of us has experienced all kinds of mental pain. It's just that we have buried them in the corner of memory, but Noah Baumbach has always remembered. And reactivating and amplifying those pains, so that things in the memory of each audience jump up again.

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The Squid and the Whale quotes

  • [first lines]

    Frank Berkman: Mom and me versus you and Dad.

  • Bernard Berkman: Joan, let me ask you something. All that work I did at the end of our marriage, making dinners, cleaning up, being more attentive. It never was going to make a difference, was it? You were leaving no matter what...

    Joan Berkman: You never made a dinner.

    Bernard Berkman: I made burgers that time you had pneumonia.