At the same age, men are never as mature as girls, which is the factor that most first love ends.
In "The Girl We Chased Together in Those Years", Ke Jingteng and Shen Jiayi did not get together in the end because Ke Jingteng could never catch up with Shen Jiayi's maturity. Shen Jiayi was ready to be confessed, but compared to her immature Ke Jingteng, she never confessed. She held underground boxing naively, refused to be cared for, and wrote down her true wishes. These acts of self-love were not. Shen Jiayi's desired state.
Seungmin and Seo Yeon met in the introductory architecture class, and Seungmin, who was shy and inferior, fell in love with this girl with red lips and white teeth at a glance. The teacher asked them to draw the route from home to school. The careful Seungmin silently wrote down her route, and was delighted that she lived in the same area. Even after class, he secretly used a red watercolor pen next to the route map that Seo Yeon had drawn. Redrawing her route, the corners of her mouth slowly upturned. I like details like this.
In this relationship, Seo Yeon has always been in control of the progress of the relationship between the two. Investigating the buildings in the area, making an appointment to visit Seoul, cleaning vacant houses and becoming a secret meeting point for the two, walking on the railroad tracks, no one can go far, all of these are all done by Seo Yeon, and Seungmin is accompanied by them. The first kiss between the two was also within Seo Yeon's plan. It's just that Seo Yeon didn't realize that she originally liked senior brother Gao Fushuai, but when Seungmin got out of the car early because she easily agreed with senior brother to drink, and saw the sad and indignant back in the reflector, it turned out that this relationship had long been unintentional. Willow shade.
Seo Yeon's frowns, smiles, and every move were all in Seungmin's eyes. He only dared to secretly look at her back on the bus, secretly follow behind her, smell the fragrance in the air as she walked by, secretly inquire about Ruiyan's news from his senior brother, for the closeness and alienation of the relationship between the two. Happy and sad.
He has low self-esteem in front of Seo Yeon. Single parent family, mother rude and petty, running a small business, living in an old neighborhood, spending all the family's financial resources to go to college. The best piece of clothing is a bootleg GUESS. In fact, if there was no Rui Yan, he buried his inferiority deeply in his heart, but when Rui Yan also said that he liked the handsome brother who had a house and a car, he alienated him intentionally or unintentionally. After the two had a happy birthday and outing, Seo Yeon talked about wanting to be a DJ in the future and marrying a rich man. He knew that he couldn't provide what she needed.
Inferiority and sensitivity are twin brothers. When Seungmin saw the drunk Seo Yeon being sent home by his senior brother, he was devastated when he heard a vague sound on the door. He thought that Seo Yeon had finally chosen the path she had always hoped for. So, when Seo Yeon came to her, he refused again with grief and indignation. Even when they meet again many years later, Seungmin still cares who Seo Yeon married.
Who said that Seo Yeon and Seung Min didn't have any worries when they were together? Laughing at the fake brand name on Shengmin's body with his senior brother, easily agreeing to the senior brother's drinking arrangement, and telling Shengmin bluntly what kind of person he wants to marry in the future, these are all a blessing to Shengmin. The invisible bayonet sticking to his body has no scars, but it is excruciatingly painful.
We can't blame Seo Yeon. Every girl expects to marry a mature and stable man, and the elements of maturity also include having certain financial resources and being able to support a better life. Jeju Island, the tourist destination we yearn for today, was only a fishing village and a poor area in South Korea. Seo Yeon is not reconciled to being a small town girl. She has ambitions so she will fight for many years before she can finally leave her hometown to study in Seoul. Therefore, after marrying the doctor, she can still hold on for many years despite her husband's affair, only to get more divorce compensation. She used the most beautiful youth and the most beautiful face to finally change the life that Bai Fumei can easily obtain.
However, the reality is not always satisfactory. Ruiyan didn't get admitted to DJ, married a doctor but couldn't get a happy marriage, and ended up in separation and divorce. My father must have been overworked and was hospitalized, and his carefully arranged life was already fragile. Shengmin became an architect, but he only worked in a small company and was not recognized for his talents. His life was poor, and even his colleagues and girlfriends could not be disclosed in the unit.
Suspicion because of sensitivity, separation because of misunderstanding, many years later, when you know the truth, in addition to regret and regret, you must also feel sad. It's just that if Seo Yeon and Seung Min are together, Seo Yeon's life requirements cannot be met, Seung Min is always at a psychological disadvantage and worried, and the two will even quarrel over oil, salt, sauce and vinegar... When Seo Yeon comes to find Seungmin, they Trial and error in life? They may have lost the courage to try and make mistakes.
The best ending is the result given to us by the director: "Give you a CD of the past, listen to our love at that time; build you a house you want and realize our common dream."
we will never go back...
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