Watching this movie, you can't deny that time is numbing. Numb to your own feelings and numb to the memories of the past. It is not memory loss, but that people have an instinctive avoidance of events that cause their own pain, whether it is out of self-protection or deliberately not thinking about it, no one can tell.
After watching this movie, you will sigh that love for women and men is ultimately a different emotional experience and emotional intensity. You will also deeply regret the loss of their love in the end, but that may be the truth of most people.... The truth of love, the reminiscence of first love, unforgettable, is it better to be separate than to be together Shou, firewood, rice, oil and salt? There is no answer and no answer is needed. Everyone's story, everyone understands. However, love will always lose its original heat and brilliance under the test of life. If you lose it when you love it the most, is it another form of love and a more profound possession? Because of the pain, the feeling of powerlessness and frustration of not being loved is so strong and vivid, so the feeling that I once loved with my whole heart is imprinted in the bottom of my heart...the deepest part. If you get married, will you occasionally recall your past relationship, your past self and each other? Got peace, can't catch memories.
When you love someone deeply and sincerely, you also become beautiful, because you are looking forward to becoming beautiful in your heart, for the love of her/her and your love. It's part of growing up. But it must bring pain and wounds. Seungmin, who is cautious and timid, and Seoyeon, who used to be proud of herself, what made you miss the opportunity to confess to each other? If you recognize the nature of love and self, you must use such a way to make you regret for many years. When you recall the past again and again, will you blame yourself for being reckless and misunderstanding his/her mind because of subjective guessing.
Anyway, the elapsed time has precipitated and experienced a more real and magnanimous self. She came into his life again with curiosity, and he finally apologized for his heartlessness (in fact, it was more inexplicable).
Why not say it? Say what? Because of the fear of not being able to express themselves, true love stops again and again before the uncertainty of youth. Ask yourself what exactly are we afraid of? Fear of losing, fear of rejection, fear of losing self-esteem. So what happens to someone who loses love because of this? Today's Seung-min and Seo-yeon finally realize that what is all the fear compared to losing love?
A few small details in the film are very moving. One is the door that Seungmin kicked, the misspelled T-shirt, the CD player that repeatedly appeared, the CD from the exhibition, the drawings of the future house in Seoyeon’s mind, the model made by Seungmin, and the After seeing Seo Yeon drunk and being sent home by his classmates, Seungmin cried with Dae-myeong about the scene. His tears made me feel sorry for his lost love and for his inability to grasp the cowardly, angry, helpless self.
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2012-05-30
She is back. Go back to the home where I grew up as a child, the familiar room layout, the outdated furniture, and...the old self. All the imprints reminded the warmth and kindness of the past, and they seemed to ask loudly, "Can you come back?"
He is not 9 to 5, he is used to working overtime. Whether love still has a place in his current life, he is noncommittal and does not want to go into it. A step-by-step life, it is logical that he will soon become someone else's husband. This is the inevitable result of being pushed by time. He has never thought about reuniting, whether it is with his first love or with his past self. Finally, Seo Yeon saw him, but at the age of her early thirties, she already had the appearance of a former middle-aged person. When Ruiyan came to visit, he didn't recognize it right away. Time is a sharp and cruel pair of scissors. I had imagined the situation when N met Seungmin many times. At this moment, Seo Yeon sighed in her heart, "What has he experienced after breaking up, and what is my love for him? Yes, the misunderstanding of the year is still unsolved, She is full of unwillingness and curiosity, I understand. Behind that, there is a woman's imprint of youth, the grief of growth.
However, just because they are old classmates, can they make arbitrary comments and accusations on each other's life today? I'd rather think it's an omission in the script than a real Seungmin. Seungmin, who has changed over time, you can be curious about Seo Yeon, but you can't hurt her with this curiosity. Based on the past love and mutual understanding, you should know what is moderate curiosity, and you should also know that even if time passes, many things will not change. What kind of you is in Seo Yeon's mind, shouldn't you be more curious about this question?
Jeju Island's seeming drunk is not drunk, and her dissatisfaction is so obvious and not concealed. He began to feel guilty, angry for his recklessness. The unpleasant conversation at the airport implies that she cares about him (but there is no position to express it clearly now), yeah, is leaving mom to go to America really the best life choice? ? As an architect, no matter where he goes on earth, he can't get rid of the loneliness of a single-parent family, and the mother who raised him hard, why in the end can only give her mother endless loneliness and longing. For those who used to know her past, Shengmin's resistance and anxiety are precisely because of her insight into herself behind her blunt speech. She doesn't want to be seen more of herself by Seo Yeon, but no one can change the past when she wanted to love each other so much.
Rebuilt, renovated, made a wish for a piano room, then reworked again... Finally, the house was built. Her wish came true, and the day of his departure was at hand. Liu Yu said that why the question of courage is always regarded as a question of time. However, the reality is often that courage does not always lead to a sincere first love. Uncertainty about oneself, unsure about the other party, not understanding the true meaning of love, not knowing how to keep oneself in love, and stopping when you see obstacles The shackles of the ego whose power transcends. So, they who missed it at the beginning have to face another separation. Only, this time, it's not a miss. But a real goodbye.
Many times, do we fall in love with love, or do we really fall in love with someone? When looking at a gentleman's character, I have the same question. I think Seungmin and Seoyeon are not blind to each other's love, they both fell in love with each other and the feeling of love,
because in love they are so different from the past, beautiful and sincere. In fact, about love, who can really speak clearly and thoroughly? How can love be analyzed? Yes, love cannot be measured, love is always a feeling of the heart. But the questioning of love will continue.
Finally, he and her, the heart knot was untied, the misunderstanding was no longer, and the unwillingness and curiosity had dissipated. Kafka said that everything that expands and deepens our experience of life can be called love. At the end of this article, imagine a passage of Seo Yeon's feelings for Seungmin - Seungmin, the study of memory, it was you who was like this, me who was like this, and our forever... first love. It belongs to the past, so it cannot grow in the soil of today. No matter how time goes by, where you are in the world, the deepest thoughts you have for you will always be in the deepest part of my heart. However, if one day I can't even remember your appearance, and even this yearning is unable (or difficult, unwilling) to continue, our short-lived love will still exist... in the long river.
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