About Love: Unprepared and Desolate

Deja 2022-10-30 22:46:06


I have watched a Korean movie "Introduction to Architecture" for 12 years N times in the past few days. The name is a little jerky and depressing. At first glance, you may not want to click on it and take a closer look. However, the content is very delicate and gentle, real and touching.
Later, I thought that this kind of jerky name from a certain side alluded to the character of the hero in the film: boring, boring, boring, realistic.
The outline of the story can be divided into two versions, just like the characters of the two protagonists.
Version 1: A woman who is unhappily married, seeks her first love boyfriend after divorce, and tries to bring back the male protagonist who is ready to marry, so she uses various tricks to win love but ultimately fails.
Well, this is the more extreme version. The second version that most people like is: after Qingjun and the girl he likes have enough good memories, they are separated due to misunderstanding. In the end, I met again before marriage. I regret all the past misses, and I have to ignore it again.
I used ugly words to describe it as reality, and beautiful rhetoric to say it was love.
I wrote a review around 5:00 pm, but when I read it again, it didn't feel perfect. I don't think it's perfect, because I really like this movie, so I want to write a relatively good text from scratch to give more people a different feeling.
Regarding love, many people have made many movies, which can resonate enough. For example, "A Little Thing About First Love", after watching it at the time, I always felt that the final look of the heroine in the film was a little bit damaging to the overall beauty, and it was not even as fresh and clean as her original one. Although she was mature, she lacked the flavor. Even with this flaw, I don't think I can find another masterpiece that can compare to it.
until I came across this video.
Nearly missed, tongue-in-cheek, Introduction to Architecture.
I have watched this movie three times so far. Every time I look at it, I can still find something different, and I never get tired of it.
Then I found that many plots in the story can be linked together, and the ending echoes:
At the beginning, the heroine walked out of her old dilapidated house, and at the end she lived in that old house, but at this time it was a brand new and beautiful new house. Just like she started from a broken marriage, found a good memory, and started life again.
At the beginning of the story, the male protagonist as an architect has not built a house yet, and has made many exquisite house models. Even in his own perfect composition, he was advised by his boss: in practice, it is almost done, and customers will not want it. Such a good house, because the cost is too large. At the end of the story, the male owner announced his farewell to the old house in his hometown and followed his fiancée to a place she liked very much and he might not. The first house I built, it was exquisite, and the owner was the woman I once liked.
The second thing I like about this movie is that the same protagonist was played by different people when he was a teenager and when he was mature. So that when the story is interspersed, you will not be confused, and it will be easier to understand the clues of the past.
When the adult female protagonist found the male protagonist, he was stunned for a while, and then called out that he did not know each other. She asked in astonishment, really? Don't know me? How could it be possible to forget me? I haven't changed?
After reminding him, as if he suddenly remembered, he explained lightly: How could he forget it, it's just been too long. I'm already old.
When I first saw it, I didn't feel anything. Now I think it really is a different way to deal with the problem. She went back to him and wanted to relive the past, so she didn't change; he couldn't recognize it because he was going to move forward, so he was old.
The young heroine appeared at the beginning of the film by running all the way to a tall, rich and handsome senior she originally liked, so she deliberately chose to study in subjects other than the same department as him, pushed open the classroom door where she was already in class, and was caught by the young boy. The Lord sees first. It also reminds me that in her story with him, there are never two people alone. When she was a teenager, she was separated from him by a tall, rich and handsome man, and when she was an adult, he was separated from her by a fiancee. And the story remains the same, she is running and chasing all the way. Whether it was happy, unhappy, or unfinished, he always sat there silently and rejoiced in his heart, looking at her without moving.
She once said these words to him:
"My birthday is November 11th, you have to remember! 1111."
"Let's meet when the first snow falls? In that uninhabited house? That's it, Retractor!"
"I'm going to live in a two-story house in the future. A dog, two children, many many windows, and the sea."
He also once said to her
, "Ten years later, I will build a house and you will play the piano."
After many years, they met again and finally parted. He has been building houses all the time, the difference is that from one place to another, he has never been able to build a beautiful and comfortable house for himself; she has changed from a rich wife to a piano teacher who was initially disdainful. The house, many windows, close to the sea, just, no children, no dogs.
As an adult, she asked, "Do you remember our promise to meet when the first snow fell?"
"I don't remember!"
Actually, he did. He just pulled himself out of her circle of life after a certain misunderstanding, avoided the intersection with her, and ruthlessly kept away from her in a way that hurt himself.
When he became an adult, he said, "Hey, today I'll treat you to kelp soup. Today is your birthday. Huh? Isn't it 1111? Did you change your birthday?
" Item clues, the CD player that was intact, the brand new tape and the house that could be given to her.
She took all the things he gave, and lived elegantly in a house facing the sun, by the sea, with flowers on the roof and walls.
So, I love this story.
You can understand why a man is realistic enough; you can also resonate with a woman's insistence on finding answers from the past. Then nod to the screen: Well, yes, they're all right.
how nice.
Looking at the movie reviews, many people say that this is the most moving and tear-jerking Korean movie they have ever seen, and there is no dead person. Haha, I appreciate that too. Grateful that this story taught you the multiple meanings of being and living.
We despise the cowardice of the male protagonist, and we regret that we feel sorry for the female protagonist's thoughts, but we are actually reminiscing about our past self. Young and frivolous are not always praised. But you can say that while watching a movie, you can't wait to poke your finger on the screen and slap that cowardly man! Or simply tie the two together, and after saying enough about those little nines and nines, don't you swear and cry?
He just missed a snow, but he didn't intend to miss the whole life.
Some people's love was like this at the time: the person who flew into the sky was not the person they wanted at the beginning, and it was always someone else who lived with them.

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